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I need opinions!

Ok, I’m kind of old (29) and have been married for 9 years. How do you know when a guy is hitting on you or seems flirty? This guy seems to appear where ever I go at school! He is in 2 of my classes. He always wants to study with me. He always wants to sit near me. He made a point of telling me his relationship with his girlfriend is rocky. I can see him looking at me out of the corner of my eye during lecture all the time and it’s creepy. I told him I really miss tv and he said yep so does he, he misses the movie theater and he wants to see a movie really bad. Was that an entrance for me to say let’s go? He always wants to meet me at school and study, now he wants to meet at night because he works during the day. I would never cheat on my husband and he knows I’m married. I just want a study buddy. Does my study buddy have a crush on me or am I just being dumb?

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

It’s quite possible. Tread carefull with this one.

I would ask your study buddy some questions to clue you in. Like jokingly say, “So what’s with all this new found attention?”

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els offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
San Diego, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

It does sound like he has a bit of a crush. Maybe start talking about how wonderful your marriage is or something lovely your husband did for him. What a PITA for you. Flattering, but a PITA none the less.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You could ask him why he so keen on hanging around with you. Like the other people on this post, I would let him know that you are married and I would be careful.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I forgot to way that I caught him smelling my hair when we were looking in the microscope. I asked him what he saw and he didn’t remember! We have to transfer out this year to University and he seemed hurt that I did not choose his. He’s trying to convince me to transfer to his university. I don’t know what to do!

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Oh man. You need to just tell him up front that you are happy in yuor marriage and not interested. You are most likely going to lose him as a friend and study buddy. But it’s that or risk having a whole lot more grief.

I’m sorry honey.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (43 minutes after post)

eip03 wrote:
Honey that boy is smitten for real, he need to back off. and by the way I’m 30 and we aint old!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lol, me too!! I still feel young!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (58 minutes after post)

You’re right! He’s a nice person, but I need to focus and just ignore his calls and steer clear of conversations. I will e-mail him and tell him I am sick tonight and can’t make it. Thanks guys!

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

you’re welcome.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Boys are Boys he has a crush on you all he wants to do is getting you in bed .Don’t be a fool you are married you have to study and your husband trusts you.Get away from him or just tell him to cool it. You re not gaining anything if you start with him.Just tell him to go and…….

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