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I am plagued with relationship anxiety problems.

I am often lonely, and I want a boyfriend. But it seems like whenever I like someone, as soon as it begins to work out I get really anxious. So anxious that I literally want to end the relationship. I feel like starting something is such a huge decision that I will never be able to reverse it, and I worry constantly about something going wrong, or what if I don’t even like them as much as I think I do? I am getting together with a guy I have liked for a long time currently, and these feelings are surfacing. I don’t want to ruin it again, if anyone has any links to sites that would help, or ideas of ways to cope, I would be so grateful.

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one.2wi offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Do you have anxiety in other areas of your life? How would you rate your self esteem?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Are you scared of being rejected so you break up with them first? Could you go into more detail?

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