marriage help: i need some positives of teen marriage. - Help.com

You might be around for your diamond wedding anniversary.

Its a plus to get your failed marriage out of the way before you are twenty.

I think you cannot find positives of teen marriage because there are none!!!

One less reason for an eHarmony commercial.

It might serve as a good, hard ‘wake up call’, possibly causing the children to ‘grow up’ somewhat sooner.

you would be together longer and that would build trust.
you would have a nice LONG marriage
Other then that I got nothing

Does that help any?

Nothing good comes out of children having children. Their lives get messed up! They don’t finish high school and end up getting divorced by the time they’re 21. Because, then they find out they can actually party until their heart’s content.

She has to do school work .. that isn’t helping .. already has the negatives.

Your kids will graduate from high school while you’re still young enough to have a life.

no pro’s of teen marriage.

Once upon a time, teen marriage was not only practiced but encouraged. For example, in the early 1800s it was very common for girls to marry at 15 or 16. Why? Because the average lifespan was only about 30! A girl that was 17 and unmarried was considered to be “over the hill.” If lifespans start declining, we may see a return to teen marriage . . . or if we suffer a calamitous war or natural disaster.

If you find the one you love when your a teenager it cuts out a hell of a lot of crap and heartache. I’ve got friends who met and married as teenagers, and they’re still happily together nearly 20 years later! My mum has a couple of her friends who did the same and who are celebrating their 50th anniversary soon. I could add some cons, but seriously, being with a load of people before you’re married can be fun, but it’s not always the ideal.

Why have most people seemed to assume that getting married = having kids. That isn’t a necessary part of it.

Health and vitality when it comes to having children young.As a grandma I see how I can’t run and play like I used to.

Two good things came out of my teen marriage, two pretty little girls. If i had never had them I wouldnt be where i am now. Made me work hard, got me out of trouble, drug & etc. They saved my life. Don’t get me wrong not all guys are like me but their are a lot of us out their. I am a rare case, I have my kids full time.