girl help: I am need of help, i am a hard working 31 yrs of age father of three and two step daughters total of five girls.

john_b_garci

I am need of help, i am a hard working 31 yrs of age father of three and two step daughters total of five girls.

I work so hard to keep the family in a good & safe location. But now we are all in distress, our country is going down hill. Causing my family go with it. I’m losing my mind, I can’t rent a apartment due to family size, and can’t buy a another home due to hard ship of loans. I need someone to talk to nor help me look one way.

I’m losing my mind, i trying to find what cause this path.
I’m thinking highly on selling i own, gave up all my toys, working longer hours. Its seems like the more i try to help out the problems new ones come, sample. I work longer hours, my baby girls told me i never spend enough time with them, we never see you. That kills me to hear that. My parent were never home…..

I don’t know what to do. NEED HELP….

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Amazing.Grace 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Well, If I could help you I would. Just try to make the best of it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Do what is necessary.
Try to explain your girls that this has to be this way, and that you would rather see it different but there is no other way right now.

If you do find a little time with them, try to make the best of the moment.

I dont know how old your older girls are, maybe they could do some babysitting with an other family, or something similar.

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dougi 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

where are you from ?

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john_b_garci 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

thanks for the input, and i’m from Torrance California

Felicity-{KIMKRISS} 281 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Try to focus on ‘Quality time rather than more time.Let them know if you havent that if you had a choice you would spend more time with them.Also tell them it will be temporary because things change all the time.don'’t let the guilt get to you,you are doing all the right things and all you can.Letting the guilt come will only make you vulnerable to giving in to them,giving them control of the situation.And they need you to be stable now more than ever.You also came to a good place to have someone to talk to.personally, I think your going to be fine.Keep talking and I will check up on you .And you can shout me anytime about anything.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

well john my husband and i are in the same situation.. i wish all those people with billions of dollars that they spend on purses and nonsense could help our country… everyone knows all about the rich getn richer.. i do know that Oprah did a special on this book called the secret and basically its all about staying positive no matter what and good things will come your way.. if you are down and negative then only bad will come your way.. things have been terrible for us since we bough this new home 6 months ago and i thought it was the home. the last bad thing that happened was our 2 yr old fell out the window and that was a wake up call.. we now realize working so hard to keep up w/ the payments is not worth the time you lose w/ your loved ones..you only live once so you must be happy at all times just to be alive and know that every moment you wake up is another day you get to look into there eyes… remember that and know this –the rest of america is in debt and struggling so who cares if you cant keep up anymore no body else can so why worry.. all of middle class and lower class is trying so hard to not drown in this money crisis. we all should just say F* it and let it go… Be positive and enjoy every moment with those girls cause you never know when it can be gone.. and if you remember that then the working so hard to keep them secure is pointless because all that matters to them is having your arms to run to at the end of it all..
i hope that your life gets more beautiful by the day and i hope that mine does also because i know how hard it is to stay positve and how hard it is to cut back on hours to have more time with them but we will all get through this one way or another i just hope sooner than later.. hold there hands and hold them close to lose those moments

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (22 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Thank you for all the inputs, see if i am wrong?

Today I told my wife that I really need her help leading. She was never the lead type, but i am stuck. So i wanted her input. But i never get a answer nor a word from her. So i said if our life doesn’t get any better, I think it’s better if i leave with my two girls. And she goes with her kids.

Felicity-{KIMKRISS} 281 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (23 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Well it doesnt sound like balance and/or compromising,but I dont know the whole situation and all involved.So ponder on that if you want.What ever you decide i wish you all the best.

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Adolphus, KY, US | 2 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

Surely there has to be a solution, rather than splitting up the family.

Anything is better than that.

Frustration can cause us to do things that we wouldn’t ordinarily do.

Are you a praying person??

If so, here are some links where you can post prayer requests:

wjcr.org click on prayer

Godswork.org

dailyguidepost.org

frangipane.org

Do you have a pastor that could help you to find solutions?

Since I am a Christian, I take all my problems to God, seeking his help, in finding solutions. And I seek him thru his word. I believe that he loves everyone of us, and that his power is unlimited to those who believe.

Sometimes the answer can be right in front of us, but, we don’t see it, until we pray.

I will be praying for you, that you will find the answers that you need.

Blessings….

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