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well i dont want to kill myself because i am afraid to die, but i like to make scars and cut my skin. i am not suicidal but i do have thought, but afraid to die. what can i do i can get professional help because that would involve my parents and they dont know that i do this.
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You need to talk to your parents, or another trusted adult immediately. They WILL help you.
I would stop cutting my self and make my freinds happy.
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no they wont. they will just say that i need to stop
Da you say it likes its easy
catherine_jose0 wrote:
no they wont. they will just say that i need to stop
Well you do need to stop, but you also need help finding out why you are doing it. Only when you understand the cause will you feel you don’t need to do it anymore. You may need some counselling to raise your self esteem or sort out any issues. It is not easy, but it is the first step.
catherine_jose0 wrote:
Da you say it likes its easy
Besides, anything worth doing is rarely easy, but the rewards are great. Like a long and happy life. Get help.
You can get help without your parents knowing. If yougo to your doctors its all confidential. I had counselling for 5 months and no one knew. But you have to do it for yourself not just to please your friends
catherine_jose0 wrote:
Da you say it likes its easy
Well if you have that attitude about it, it wont be. By all means keep cutting your self it’s your life to do what makes you happy not what makes your friends happy. But if it where me I would stop and make my friends happy because I like my friends and value their opinions.
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well i know why i am doing it, because it makes me feel good makes me feel better about my self. But the weird thing is i dont ever remember cutting i will find it latter in the day and i will only remember parts but not all of the actions.
hpesoj44 wrote:
You can get help without your parents knowing. If yougo to your doctors its all confidential. I had counselling for 5 months and no one knew. But you have to do it for yourself not just to please your friends
Excellent advice.
catherine_jose0 wrote:
well i know why i am doing it, because it makes me feel good makes me feel better about my self. But the weird thing is i dont ever remember cutting i will find it latter in the day and i will only remember parts but not all of the actions.
This is very worrying. All I can tell you is you need to be brave and seek help. Good luck.
Da i love my friends they make me happy so happy that i dont want or have to cut but i only see them in study hall twice or three times a week and that does not fill my need of them. I would love to be with them all the time but i cant. i want to make them happy but i am not with them all the time to be happy so i wont cut.
catherine_jose0 wrote:
Da i love my friends they make me happy so happy that i dont want or have to cut but i only see them in study hall twice or three times a week and that does not fill my need of them. I would love to be with them all the time but i cant. i want to make them happy but i am not with them all the time to be happy so i wont cut.
Ohhh to be yung again. I would give a lot if I could hang out with my freinds twice or three times a week. Might as well give up now Cath because life doesnt get any easyer.
Or you could realize how good life is for you right now and be happy.
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you should not tell some one that cuts to give up now.
i have to go thanks for the advice.
Find a new way to vent out negative enery. Such as: listen to music, write poetry, draw, or join sports. Explain to ur friends why u do this & about telling ur parents…. well do what u know is best for u. If u think u can handle this issue on ur own go for it, but remember that your parents only want what’s best for you.
_wish u the best =]
tell someone who you trust that can get you help.. If you are 18 than yyou can find out who your insurance is through and go get help and your parents wouldnt have to know.
catherine_jose0 wrote:
you should not tell some one that cuts to give up now.
i have to go thanks for the advice.
One should always tell people the turth :)
I dont want you to give up, I want you to stop cutting. But the turth is that life doesnt get any funner or happyer if you can’t learn to deal with it now what are you going to do latter?
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catherine_jose0 wrote:
Da you say it likes its easy
i cut to and am going though the same thing except i dont have many friend and the ones i have who know just block it out and make me feel bad when its brough up ill help you if i can i have one friend on myspace who helps me if you want to talk or any thing my emails i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
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