Today at school I wanted to sit alone because I was mad at my friends.
So I did and one of my friends came and asked what was wrong. I told her that I was tired of them always cussing. So she went and told my other friends. Her and another came over to where I was sitting, and asked again why I wasn’t sitting with them I looked up and turned my head. They said that they brought me into their “group” and could take me out. So we then ended our friendship, and still I said not a word. After about 5 min. I Started to cry, and everyone wanted to know what was wrong. Later I made a new friend, and towmarrow the whole grade is going to fort wayne, Indiana. And me and my new friend are going to sit togeher on the way there. But I want my old friends back. What should I do?
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I don’t want to seem too mean but if your friends say that they brought me into their “group” and could take me out, they don’t seem like very good friends. How is your relationship with your new friend.
She is realy nice. We talk all the time, but never used to hng out.
Have a relationship with your new friend. Your old friends sound like tools.
Yeah. I want to, but my old friends where my friends for so long.
I understand. I went through a similar situation and I sort of wanted my old friends because I knew them and sort of felt safer.
I totaly trust her.
well I hope she does. She shares her clothes and stuff with me.
But I don’t know.
Well in that case, cherish your new friend. It’s is rarity to find a really good friend.
I will and know.
That’s good. Out of curiosity, how do you feel about your friends now.
The mean ones. Hate them.
In that case, leave them. You don’t want to hang around with people like. Believe me it eats away at your soul.
You should try to make ‘peace’ with your old friends, but not hang out with them. stay with your new one. She seems nicer and was there for you when your old friends wanted to beat you up. Whatever you do, don’t ditch her cause there aren’t much nice (like really nice) people left in the world and she’d be really hurt if you did especially after how she kept you company.
I won’t leave her, but my old friends seemed nice at first to. So not everyone is a nice friend.
In that case you probably don’t want to be too trusting yet. Let your trust build as your friendship grows.
Good. You will have to let us know in the future how your friendship is.
I will let you all know in two days. My post will be called “Friednship”
Are you into pschology? Maybe you could assess her secretly while not being biased. that’s how i usually go. a good way to see what the person is like is to have a good conversation about their views on life. also check if she’s a pessismist or not and if she’s a moody person
That’s not a bad idea by bifob14. However don’t let your friend know that because some people HATE being psychologically assessed.
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