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miss katie
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Bostwick, GA, US

i need advice on a guy i like at work!

? help?!
so i just started my job like last friday and me and this guy have worked maybe 4 times together, but we talk alot when we work together…im crushing on him big time..and sometimes i think hes into me and sometimes im confused..so idk..idk if i should tell him or not?!? or if i do tell him how to tell him!! ugh..btw we work in a restaurant im a hostess and he is a food runner..im 17 fxn to be 18 and hes 19 fxn to be 20..hmm help plz? any advice! :/

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mar98 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

yeah, go for it.

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across_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Most guys would love to be approached by a girl first. It’s one of those situations that you just have to do something even if it’s scary, because if you wait around, usually nothing happens. It’s likely the guy is going through the same thoughts as you. Be careful though, I used to date someone i worked with at a resteraunt, and when we broke up it was really hard to work at the same place, ,and she ended up quitting so we didn’t have to see eeach other.

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dotspot offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I once hooked up with a girl within a week at a food service job. She showed up at my house one day and we got it on.

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mar98 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

dotspot wrote:
I once hooked up with a girl within a week at a food service job. She showed up at my house one day and we got it on.

nice.) She showed up at my house and we got it on…

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miss katie offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Bostwick, GA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

lol..well im not worried about it being awkward or anything..i just really wish i could say something but its like the whole “it wants to come out but it doesnt” thing lol..
hes really cute..lol:]

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lil_Jay00 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

in this situation you should be able to tell or ‘feel’ if theres something going on btwn the two of u, ie, flirting, eyeing each other randomly, etc. if this sort of stuff is going on hes def into u too. idk if telling him straight up is the best way. im a guy, if i was him and felt the same way, id want u to ask me out or something, then see how things go from there. oh also, if things move too fast, work will become mad awkward, so take it slow..

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miss katie offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Bostwick, GA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (20 minutes after post)

ok thnx jay…its just soooo hard for me to ask him out or tell him anything like that..ugh..is it childish to like hint to someone im crushing so they hint to him?! lol

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cute_n_sweet_cowgir offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (29 minutes after post)

maybe you should just ask him to coffee, dinner, a movie you are both wantin to see, at least he would know that you are crushing on him…i dont know how much ths helps or not.

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