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I need help…I do not know how to cope..I do not know what to do..itd be so easy to just take a bunch of pain meds and then never wake up…He said he would always love me and that he loved me more than anyone else he ever loved, that I would be the last he ever loved….but now he wants to break us up bc he says its not a realistic relationship and he feels like he is holdoing me bak but he isnt…and all the while he still says he loves me…I just want to wake up and have it all be a dream

Can you explain to him that he’s not holding you back, and that you would like to try and have this work out? Becuase you really care about him, and feel a connection that you have never felt with anyone else.
If it doens’t work out, please don’t kill yourself. Suicide isn’t the answer. Try and find something to entertain yourself, but first wallow. Watch a sad movie eat some icecream and wallow.
But hopefully it workd out

I have said all of this and all he does is cry with me and say hes sorry…Nothing compares to him…I feel miserable.

ahhhh dont commit suicide i have nearly but then i thought what would that make me it would make me pathetic and i know that im not pathetic i know your not pathetic but this boy…. he sounds VERY PATHETIC IF YOUVE TOLD HIM THAT HE AINT HOLDING YOU BACK HE SHOULD SAY SORRY AND FORGET THAT HE EVER THOUGHT OF BREAKING UP WITH YOU …. i too am in a pickle of love you see i am bi and i want tot ell my brothers gay friend i like like him but im too scared hell tell my bro and my bro or mum and dad cant know i am bi cause my parents r against gays but any ways dont let this bother you if he is going to break up with you i suggest you dump him in the harshest way possiblwe then next day ask him out agaibn saying you love him so much and you hope it taught him a lesson in love you cant just bvreak up with tsome one for those reason unless you really dont like them any more but dont commit suicide

what can I do or say to try and keep him with me…even though it makes me feel pathetic & desperate…I love him more than anything…we were talking about getting married even

awwwjust try and make him feel a tad bit guilty but even then you might feeel pathetic but if he makes you happy do what you must or when this girl gets into to town you saiid you dont know her much try getting to know her or ask her to not do anything inapropriate and find someone else cause he makes you happy

A long distance, difficult relationship - doesn’t that sound as though it should be over? People come and go in life, you don’t need to hang on to something that is not working just because you’re afraid to let go. You won’t fall. You will feel the benefit of letting go and the freedom it comes with. Then you will have a new page to write on - a whole new page. So give yourself a bit of a shake up and tell yourself that you will fill your life with wonderful things and be happy. By the sounds of it, you deserve to. Get out if you can and see things, do things and lean on your friends for a while - don’t drive them away with constant slobbering, show them that you are having a new life! Start with coffe and a mini bag of do’nuts down at the mal. Hope your still listening.