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Well I would suggest just putting your foot down and waiting for her to try and fix things because she is the mum and it’s about time she acted like it.

it’s ok I know how you feel my mum acts very immature-alot and it can be stressful but don’t let it get to you because you have so much to live for why let them ruin it.

Well tell me about your problems and I’ll see what I can do to cheer you up. if the stress really aint worth it do you have friends you can stay with if even just for a week so you can cool off and relax a little?

Well first thing we got to do is get you to stop with the self harm, as hard as that may seem it’s only going to make things worse. if your mum is really that childish then maybe its her that ought to have councelling and what exactly has your dad said to you?

As you shouldn’t, having to act the parent in every fight just isnt fair on you. I understand what you mean by the self harm, maybe though you could replace it with something else that can help you cope such as walking, writing, heck even going to a secluded place and screaming your lungs out what ever makes you feel better. it saddens me to hear that your mum is acting this way because she is meant to look out for you not the other way around. I would say to just go live with your aunt for awhile even if you are worried about your mum because you need to be able to let some stress off your mind abit. Also have you ever told her how what she does effects you?

Well how serious are you harming? And maybe it’s time you had a serious talk with her or something because her behaviours gotta stop.

Well can you write her a letter? I know it sounds silly but sometimes it can be the best option.

You’re not wasting my time I want to help you get through this.

It’s ok, now I still recommend staying with your aunt. If your mum doesn’t like ti she’s gowing to have to talk to you not sit and sulk at home.

As long as you don’t do anything stupid like taking your life its ok. I’m sure that one day you will get through this struggle and things will get better it may just take time.

Hmmm..fall in love again? Seriously though is she the only or major stress in your life because if your 16 then you wont have to put up with it long.

How long ago did you lose him?

I understand, yes dealing with a loss can add unwanted stress and depression which would only worsen your current situation.

Yes I feel for you there, sometimes you wish you were mentally ill just so you can understand why you feel the way you do, anit-depressants may seem like a good answer but they have so may side effects and can in some rare cases make the taker feel worse.

Trust me you aren’t the only one who wants to control your feelings but truth is no one can really do that. you can be happy agian but drugs aren’t the best way to do that. There are many other methods you can use until things get better at home.

Well my best advice to cheer yourself up is to find something you are really good at and put all your heart and soul into it.

I hope things get better for you all the best and have fun at work!