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Me and my boyfriend use to hang out everyday sense

he moved out towards my place but for the past 2 weeks he has been going back to the cities and staying there at his families. He used to call me everyday and we would talk for hours but now that he is staying down there with his other family and he never calls, i always have to call him and when i do we talk for about 2 min about what ever then he’s like how about you call me back later love you bye. every time i call its like call me later then i do and it starts all over again. Idk maybe im just over reacting and being selfish but now he is talking about moving back down there because he found a job. I just really miss him and don’t know what to do cuz we don’t stay on the phone long enough for me to tell him how i really feel. I would move down there with him but i still have 20 days of high school left. What should i do??

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2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

well this is not far on you u decided to move with you and now he has gone back, you need o talk to him face to face maybe go see him for the day when your not t school and then if everything is still ok move down they after you have finished school

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op_seed_e offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

He sounds like either he is busy or has lost interest. Before jumping ahead of things, you need to confirm possible plans with your friend or mate.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Next time you ring him or talk to him (probs best face to face)
Before nefin elsee.. tell him how you feel!
Dnt keep it in.
Or all this will keep stiring in your mind.
How often do u ring him or contact him?

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cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 2 months ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Personally I’d stop calling him for awhile and see if he notices… let him come to you… let him wonder why you quit calling.

If he’s acting like this, I’m not so sure moving there would be the best thing right now. You probably need to have a long talk next time he has “time”!

I don’t think you’re being selfish at all, I think he’s being rather cold and inconsiderate to just cut you off like this recently.

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