friends help: am I that boring? - Help.com



This post left anonymously

am I that boring?

all my life I didn’t have many friends…specially boys…they always turned out to be interested or something like that. I am very depressed today.I ahve only 2 friends my sister and a girl that went with me to unibersity, but she moved far away and now she is doing another course and she is always busy. I am moving to another country next month with my sister. But she has been giving me a hard time, she is always saying we are too different, and over there she will only have me and noone else, she won’t have other friends etc. I feel so boring…I know I am reserved sometimes, but that’s only with strangers. I also had a 6 years relationship and now I ve been alone for over an year. I am afraid of how long it will take for me stopfeeling this way…am I going to be able to make friends in a whole other continent? I am worried

This open post was written 2 months, 1 week ago | V/U/S: 111, 5, 3 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (11)

Replies (5)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Of course you will make friends… think of it as a whole new start! It really has more to do with how approachable you seem to be… can you be friendly with other people, chat a little… seem easy to talk to?? If you keep to yourself or don’t seem open to others, that can cause people to keep a distance and not try to talk to you. You can get involved in groups that really interest you, and you can meet others with common interests.

I really doubt you’re boring. You had a 6 year relationship… you must have some good qualities for something to last that long! You can definitely find new friendships if you want to and put your mind to it!!

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

In my high school I had only 1 friends. I was very shy and reserved. I though maybe I am boring and dull. I guess people felt that I was unapproachable and very serious person. I came from a different continent to US by myself for college as much as I was excited coming over here but at the same time I was very nervous and did not know whether i would make new friends. But let me tell u dont worry it will be alright not only I had many friends but everyone knew me very well in the university. I think u just have to open ur self to new people and u will do great… Dont worry new continent new life … hopefully it should be fun for u…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

well thanks! I try to be positive about it…but sometimes it’s hard…I know I won’t be completely alone over there…I have my sister which I lvealthough sometimes she makes me said…and besides I have some distant relatives over there in europe…cuz my mother emigrited here…so I have some people I can rely on. I will try to keep it toguether and be patient and wait :) thanks!

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
elysium87 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 215 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

If you have access to a computer and the Internet over there, you can talk to the people here. I know it is not the same, but it’s a great to come to to if you are feeling down.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Best of luck to you… I’m sure things will turn out just fine! :)

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.