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anneliesehuss
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Hey guys sorry I havent been on in a while, but we had our baby!

yay!

all that aside I’ve got a bit of a story to tell.
ok so like you know that really crappy relationship I was in? well not anymore. Im single again. but not by my hand. He broke up with me said he wanted to be independant. so I said whatever. mind you this was like the day after my c section. well just yeserday I told him I was starting to get over it, and he like said we should go do something sometime. like a date. I told him that we’d have to wait and see how things go for a while. so Im confused does he want to be with me or not. and do I even want to be with him. well yes I do, but not the him that treats me like crap and puts his friends and video games and pot first. I want to be number one to him. everything else except our daughter should be number 2. and now I think maybe he just doesnt want me to date anyone else but him, but he can do whatever he wants. so Im thinking about starting a relationship with someone, though I dont really have any one in mind. what do you guys think.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

It seems like he just wants you because you aren’t sitting around crying over him. Do yourself a favor and move on with your life.

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2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

You need help with this baby…let him close enough to be a father. I know you had wanted to attend classes, so staying on good terms will allow for easier times for him to watch the baby while you study…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

keep him as a friend, but move on girl! u dont need an idoit like that. stay true to ur heart

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Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 2 months ago (5 hours, 30 minutes after post)

well first congrats on the arrival of your daughter.. (need more info on that!)
Second I would say that I think you need to concentrate on you and your baby for a while, forget about dateing and who is next just get yourself together and enjoy being yourself.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Congrats on your new baby girl, Ann! Your boyfriend either needs to “grow a pair” and be a man, meaning commit to you and the child you two have brought into the world, OR he needs to get out of your life and face the very real possibility that a court will make him pay child support for the next 18 years. Either way he’s still responsible for your daughter. The time for video games and pot and putting buddies first is over.

You need to hold him accountable, or you’ll be short-changing your child. You can’t make him be a father, but you can prevent him from treating the two of you like a doormat.

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Tiffin, OH, US | 2 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

thanks guys I kinda knew you all would say that, but Im glad I heard it. I really have gotten over him now, and am finally starting to realize that I can do this on my own.

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