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I dont noe what to do, today feels worse, worse then any of the braekdowns before. Im gonna snap. I realize what ive done now, ive nagged her, ive cried to hear, ive worried about her… so **** much that ive numbed her, ive pushed her awya,.. each time ig et upset she just distances herself immediately now. And its all my fauly for constnatly naggina nd pcking apart. I just told her that and she doesnt noe what to say, i asked her how sehs feeling and she said i feel nothing.

I feel like every breath is constricted, if eel like screaming or crying and my parents are home and walkin around and i have to pretend im ok. I just wanna curl up and dissapear.

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Shinkter offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

why do you have to pretend your ok ?

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

OR else they see me and say “this is why ur not doin good on homework, u have to braek up with her”

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I really do. Thats why it hurts me so **** much to do what I do to her, adn to see her have to become numb to things.

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Jen* offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Have you told her and explained what you’ve said here?
Does she love you, thats the big question?

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Yea she really does. I know she does and she lets me noe it too. I told her exactly what I explained here. She doesnt really noe what to say. All she could say was that we’d work it out.

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Jen* offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Well thats amazing, really your so on the right track! Little things make such a big difference to girls. Saying I love you is gr8 but actions speak louder than words. Hold her tight, look into her eyes, the cliche of flowers bought or wild, little by little i’m positive you guyz can get closer than you ever were the strongest relationship are like peddles firm and smooth but they’ve been battered by the sea!

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (35 minutes after post)

She lives 2000 miles away :(

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Yes. The width of america.

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Jen* offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Have you ever written letter they are still more romantic as phoning all the time or emails!

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I sent her 2 poems in th mail inscribe don a book i bought her for christmas. I also try and do little things like songs and video recordings for her. I cant rite now tho cus paretns are home.

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Snar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

thx

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