Why do you feel worthless or why are you deppressed?
Hey there, don’t feel sad, talk about it. Talking helps you get over your problems.
Things will be ok I’m sure.
I hope you’ll feel well soon
Hugs!
had my birthday may 1 , 53 looked back over my life and seen what little i had achieved, like its been a waste of time
My brother’s birthday was May 1, too. Happy Birthday. What do you do for a living?
i dont work, i am a carer for my wife, she suffers from deppression , and used to be a self harmer
bassdrummer12 wrote:
i dont work, i am a carer for my wife, she suffers from deppression , and used to be a self harmer
That’s your achievment in my opinion, You have a great heart and you are a good person….You save your wife’s life everyday, don’t you think it’s something worthy doing?
And I hope you spend sometime too taking care of yourself. Because you need taking to regain your strenght sometime and you need a source where you get your happiness from too….
Remember that you have to be happy sometimes
thats harder than work its 24/7, why do you feel worthless you do something good in looking after someone else with problms, i have 2 sons with different disabilities and it is hard work being a carer, you need to look after yourself too
u may not know it, but u r doing special. u dont have to look over ur life w/ a magnifiying glass, just let it be
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Listen, we all have our ups and downs. Sometimes we come to a point in our lives where we don’t know if we are coming or going. We we don’t know if we are assleep or in a live that keeps us in a deep trance without being able to move forward. But, all in all life is here and we have to keep on living. Your life is never a waste of time. You got to 53 didn’t you? Make it another 53. Taking care of your wife is your job. I am sure you do a great job at it.
Some people think that life has to be a big reward party, but it’s in the little daily victories where most of us find solace. Does this make sense.?
You have somebody who depends on you: your wife. Don’t give up on her and don’t give up on you. Your life is not a waste. Do you have friends you can call on where you live? Do you have a support group? You have to interact with the people around your neighborhood or your church.
I find my life to be worthless sometimes, but I have people who depend on me and they give me the strength to keep on going with this daily grind of a job that I have. And, if I didn’t have them or anybody else, I would have me to depend on me. I would owe to myself to keep on living and making the best of my life.
have u ever heard of the movie, “it’s a wonderful life”? watch it over. it shows that u do matter in everyway!
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So you’ve reached a point in your life where you’re making some judgements on what you’ve achieved to date. That’s fair enough…everyone does it periodically through life. If you think it may have been a waste of time, I’m in no position to suggest otherwise, and nor is anyone else on this site - we don’t know your circumstances. But one thing is sure; should you choose to ‘end it’, then you stop the possibility of achieving anything in the future. If your unhappy with your past, learn from it. Set some future goals, they can be outrageous if you wish, and then plot an easy step by step course to get there. The journey may take ages, but you will be striving to achieve something that you can later look back on and be proud.
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i have a few people that i know but not what i would call close friends, i have helped a lot of people in the past in various different way, ive been used several times, but thats another story, i know my wife needs my support and cant manage without me, i probably not do anything to myself, but sometimes i just feel im at the bottom of a deep rutt and cant climb back out of it
if you feel you’ve been this low before then you know things can get better, although at the time it is hard to see this. sometimes all you need is to talk and let all what pulls you down out, these can be many small things that have just built up, and on their own seem irrelevant but when you add them up they overwhelm us
it’s OK we all feel that way sometimes
it will pass
trust me
I don’t wish to appear rude, but a lot of this ‘help’ is fairly wishy-washy, ‘Things will get better’ etc. If you really want a change, you have got to be the instigator of that change. Set your goal, create your plan to achieve it and set to work!
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sometimes all you need is to hear things will get better, not everybody can change anything when they have sombody else depending on them to get through each day.
Maybe you should write down what you wish you had achieved and start making little steps to making your dreams come true. Just little things - one day at a time. Do you ever laugh opr have fun?
Is your wife getting therepy? Depression if serious should be handled by a professional. How about you? Being a care giver is exhausting. My sister did it for her father in law. 2 years, they loved eachother but he was totally dependant on her. Going to the bathroom, eating, medications, special diet. He was half paralyzed and lifting him was difficult. Changing sheets and just so much. I read an article that states sometimes these caregivers have guilty thoughts about someone they really do love but, it creates emotions that are hard to deal with.
She needs to be active in her depression as well. I hope she is trying to learn to overcome it. Otherwise she will stay there and you will live both your lives with sacrifices. Seeing change and progress can be so uplifting and offers another side of the world.
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