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I need help!

My bf and I have been going on strong for about 3 months!

Now all of a sudden I feel like hes avoiding me!

He barely answers my text…He never answers my calls! When I get on imvu he gets off…when I get off he gets on! (Do you think its just a coincidence?)

We live in a 3 hour time difference! So yea

This has only happened to us once before…After about 1 1/2 month of us dating. He recently broke his ankle and tore a ligament so he hasnt been up on his feet…lol if you get me. He is getting sick and thats not good.

I texted him last night and asked him how he was feeling… This is what he said…

Badd,tired,bored,hurtin,madd,calm,an sleepy…Just like that! Thats exactly how he said it…I asked him why and he said he doesnt know he just does! I told him that i missed him and was hoping he missed me too..HE DIDNT REPLY! (I think he is mad at me but idk why) Everytime I say something like that he doesnt reply! I keep trying to tell him how I feel but everytime I get into the subject he finds a way to change it or not reply or something! I really dont wanna lose him and if I do I will be heart broken for ever! What should I do!!!!

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ytrewq #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

May I ask how old you are?

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

ytrewq wrote:
May I ask how old you are?

19…Why does everyone ask the same question? Lmao

tea ali 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

He sounds depressed…maybe about not being able to get around as usual. And then the three hour time difference…Can you go and visit him?

Alpharis 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Ok…obviously he is stressed because he is injured and he is worried about his life in general. Plus the fact that you live 3 hours time change doesn’t help matters…he may be getting bored by your continuos attention..he may feel hampered..i don’t think he is angry with you…just let him rest 4 a while

Anonymous #
2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

tea ali wrote:
He sounds depressed…maybe about not being able to get around as usual. And then the three hour time difference…Can you go and visit him?

Well I could If I wanted too but I dont have the cash right now…

Alpharis wrote:
Ok…obviously he is stressed because he is injured and he is worried about his life in general. Plus the fact that you live 3 hours time change doesn’t help matters…he may be getting bored by your continuos attention..he may feel hampered..i don’t think he is angry with you…just let him rest 4 a while

Okay I will give it a try…But I dont want him to think I dont like him anymore Or I found someone else…

Alpharis 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Relax…most men don’t think that..leave him some time to rest..and he has to feel like he misses you…wait a while..he may call on his own. if he doesn’t you call. But DON’T BE OBSESSIVE!!!

Anonymous #
2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Alpharis wrote:
Relax…most men don’t think that..leave him some time to rest..and he has to feel like he misses you…wait a while..he may call on his own. if he doesn’t you call. But DON’T BE OBSESSIVE!!!

Okay Okay…LMAO! I wont be

Alpharis 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Good luck

pseudoniem 5 #
Den Haag, 11, NL | 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

deYeah, it sounds like he is really down because of his injury, a little frustrated about all the things he cannot do. Your asking him how he’s doing just reminds him of his frustration. Next time you may want to try to be a distraction for him, like suggest some thinngs to do together he enjoys instead of asking him to talk about his feelings / onjury. When you feel bad, you lash out to everyone who makes you remeber that, even if they did nothing wrong. You’ll have to be patient with him for a while.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

pseudoniem wrote:
deYeah, it sounds like he is really down because of his injury, a little frustrated about all the things he cannot do. Your asking him how he’s doing just reminds him of his frustration. Next time you may want to try to be a distraction for him, like suggest some thinngs to do together he enjoys instead of asking him to talk about his feelings / onjury. When you feel bad, you lash out to everyone who makes you remeber that, even if they did nothing wrong. You’ll have to be patient with him for a while.

Okay…Thanks! ^_^

Anonymous #
2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Oh yea did I mention that he broke his ankle playing basketball a sport both of us enjoy! And we both cant play anymore cuz about a few months ago I broke my ankle and then I hurt my knee…and He only had a few games left and his biggest goal was to finish the season before going off to college! Last year the exact same thing happened and he couldn’t finish then because of it…

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