Love help: I’m lonely , single and feeling dead right now.I really

fiz_ontheway

I’m lonely , single and feeling dead right now.I really

don’t know why but the feeling just won’t go away.My friends are all attached and i’m desperately want to be love. whenever i got to contact with another girl there will always be something that goes wrong.I feel that my life is a joke.I even quit smoking which i dun know why since my life is just empty and boring.I think i’m ugly.
Can someone help me.I dont want to be alone for the rest of my life.=(

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Romy22 12 #
Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Im single..

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Hi can u help me with my situatian.?

Romy22 12 #
Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

how do u want me to help u?

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

by giving me some tips or advise?

Romy22 12 #
Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

ok u feel lonely and dead inside. Do u think its really bcoz u r simple?

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Romy22 12 #
Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

single*

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

yes im single.tink so.but wat should i do or what should you do if u ar in my position?

Alpha knight 20 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 7 minutes after post)

i personally would run out looking for people to make friends.
go out and live! go see paris and germany and spain! do everything and never feel bad about any of it!

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 54 minutes after post)

i have friends but most of them are like “hi bye” kind of friends.but hey tat is a good suggestion.maybe i could save up some money and go to europe.Anyway i need to know what girls really want.i been trying to figure it out for yrs.Im kind of lonely,did break down but didnt gave up.

Alpha knight 20 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 56 minutes after post)

You will never know what women want none of us will!!

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Alpha knight 20 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 57 minutes after post)

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 2 minutes after post)

you are probably right man…thanks.But im still lonely dude.haha

Alpha knight 20 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I try to understand them though…

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The Iron Weasle 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Ok… I’ll see if I can work with what you’ve got here…

There are three questions that need to be answered here. First, what is going wrong? Is it a anger issue, or is one of your friends butting in? Second, and this is serious, are you looking at the right type of girls? I’ve been through the nightmare of school and college, and I know that there are those who flirt and those who shy… and usually the flirty, fun, partiers tend to be the ones who “live in the moment”, and discard boyfriends like some people change socks. Thirdly, How are you handling the dates?

My first piece of advice is simple. Women love power. please, don’t take that litterally. Women love to feel like they are in controll at all times, just like us men, however they are not exactly straightforward about it. You’re simplest tool against this? Sit down and talk. Be calm, be smooth. Don’t get frustrated or angry. Make them dinner, and bring them gifts… It dosen’t have to be expensive, but it needs to make them feel special…

Second piece of pro-bono advice isn’t as comforting as the first. Most times, women are just as confused as we are. Each of the genders feels emotions in a different way, and deal with it accordingly. Ever wonder why a man gets angry and spazzes when his car is stolen, but a women crys? It’s simply a difference in processing. As men, we surpress everything. They feel it, even if they don’t want too.

Again, my best advice is patience. Be calm, and NEVER let your anger ever get the best of you. Make her feel special, be calm and hopefully everythign will get better… drop me a message if you need any ideas…

Stay sane…

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fiz_ontheway 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days after post)

ok IRON WEASLE..Sad to say its anger issue.im feeling angry with myself.I don’t know why but everyone around me seems to be lucky whenever they go out on a date.Some of them either got themselves in serious relationship while others just playing around.

Secondly im not the flirty type nor the shy type.Im between the scale of “flirtness” and shyness.haha.I just want a serious relationship.Even so i did not sit in my room complaining to myself but i took an effort to get some girls’ number and go out on a date.I did everything i could to respect the girl that i date ,make her feel like someone special.

And sooner or later each girl i date just disappear.Its either she find another guy better or just disappear.The problem with me is that whenever I got the ball i couldn”t keep the ball rolling.In the end im alone again….and it will go over and over again.Its been years.im sick of it.

Some of the dates so far were good ,some didnt turn out well.I regret going on some dates but i know at least i give it a shot.Like some people say trying is half a battle won…ya but how long..I can change, i can adapt but things does not go the way you want ,not even one time.Everyone deserve a chance..Don;t you think so?

But hey thanks for the advise.I feel a little better.I just need to share my situation with someone.

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