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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If you don’t post your secrets then nothing to worry about, but otherwise someone who knows you can recognise you if they happen to read your posts.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

But you use your real image don’t you?

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yes but then don’t write any posts, I did that only at the beginning but that’s all.

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I have to say I don’t like putting pictures of myself up either

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

*I don’t write any posts

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Nensix offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I don’t want me to be recognisable as me in case people I know use this site…although to be fair I think by reading my posts you’d know it was me, if you knew me…

But a picture makes it instantly obvious.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah. In a quandry now. I might remove it again.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

If you don’t feel comfortable with having it there then there is no need to have it up in my opinion. When you are helping a person it’s nice to be able to put a face to them, but it’s by no means essential and there’s no need to be doing it if you don’t feel right about it.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

hey…iknowyou wrote:
If you don’t feel comfortable with having it there then there is no need to have it up in my opinion. When you are helping a person it’s nice to be able to put a face to them, but it’s by no means essential and there’s no need to be doing it if you don’t feel right about it.

Sounds like good advice, ta.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

No problem :)

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Thanks for that everyone, I have now changed it to a picture of ‘me’, a shellfish! Just remember not to tell anyone what I look like. :)

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hey...iknowyou offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Aw man that’s not cool . . . . . .

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scary doll offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour after post)

I often change my picture as other people do.

Is that a picture of you on top of the Rockerfeller building in NY? I loved it up there.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
most users on this site know of that feature so its not like im giving away state secrets…lol

I didn’t.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

shellfish wrote:

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
most users on this site know of that feature so its not like im giving away state secrets…lol

I didn’t.

I guess I made a big mistake posting the picture, I didn’t realise that it would remain forever. And now there is a link so everyone can see it. I guess that my career on here is now over.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
well just shoot me for informing you that there is a way to see users old avatars and just about everyone thats been here longer than three months knows about it, would you rather not know and think no one can see it? is ignorance bliss?

Well I’ve only been here a week. Sorry for not being so clever on that.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
well just shoot me for informing you that there is a way to see users old avatars and just about everyone thats been here longer than three months knows about it, would you rather not know and think no one can see it? is ignorance bliss?

I should thank you. so thanks.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
maybe if you shout yourabi and plead with him, he might remove that pic, i know of one user that got her old pic deleted from her profile page but that was with the old admin jeff

Didn’t mean to sound ungrateful, just shocked it’s still there.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

And now I feel so stupid and humiliated.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
http://help.com/user/42674-jebus-zeus…

My sense of humour is returning. Enjoyed viewing, but could not tell which was you cos they were all weird!! :)
Guess I’ll just have to live with it. Let’s face it, most people wouldn’t bother and the rest don’t care.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

bonnie wrote:
I often change my picture as other people do.

Is that a picture of you on top of the Rockerfeller building in NY? I loved it up there.

Yeah, in 2006 on my honeymoon. I loved it, I never bothered with the Empire State Building.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
http://help.com/user/42674-jebus-zeus…

Just joking about the weird, thanks for that, it made me feel better. Nice photos (the real ones.) After all, what’s the big deal really, after all it’s a sight I see in the mirror every day so I’ll live with it. It was my mistake, so you live and learn. I should have known that once it’s out there, it really is ‘out there’ forever. Ho hum.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

And it was a really nice reply..

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
lol

aw shucks I can’t do anything right!

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scary doll offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

You are doing fine Shellfish.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 115 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Anyway, thanks for all the help. Bye everyone, lots of love, Shellfish.

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1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Is that a ‘BIG’ goodbye, or a ’small’ goodbye?

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

Is this site help.com or trap.com? It makes me paranoid, I don’t want my picture here anymore.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 14 hours after post)

I’m kind of sad I missed the picture. It does help somehow form or solidify the connection with those friends I’ve found here. It’s just nice to see that face of that person who I’m sharing this with. Of course .. I haven’t even completed my profile yet and I respect your decision.

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1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

one.2wi wrote:
I’m kind of sad I missed the picture. It does help somehow form or solidify the connection with those friends I’ve found here. It’s just nice to see that face of that person who I’m sharing this with. Of course .. I haven’t even completed my profile yet and I respect your decision.

Just follow the link that has been posted above and you’ll see the photo.

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1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) wrote:
if you want to view other peoples old avatars, you just go to their profile and type /avatars in the url

As above.

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Shellfish edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

I have always hidden behind an anon avatar.
Now I have posted a ‘real’ picture of me and I feel a bit silly. Very exposed. Anyone else feel like that or is it just me?

Shellfish edited this post 1 year, 4 months ago. Read the previous text »

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