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What is the best way of deciding whether to end a relationship?

It is so hard as there are so many reasons for and against the relationsip and I am never completely impartial as whenever I’m with him I’m like ‘this is what I want. Nothing else’ but when I’m away from him I have a chance to think over what’s wrong in the relationship and that maybe i need to move on. How do I decide rationally?

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Dragon_Lady online Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

If you have doubts, it’s best to move on. It’s only fair to both of you. He deserves the chance to find someone who’s truly in love with him, and so do you. :)

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Midvale, UT, US | 2 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Did you talk to him about what’s wrong or missing out of the relationship? I think it would be fair to give him a chance at working on issues. Also maybe he could point out a few things too about what you could do to help or what his issues are with you.

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