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What is the best way of deciding whether to end a relationship?

It is so hard as there are so many reasons for and against the relationsip and I am never completely impartial as whenever I’m with him I’m like ‘this is what I want. Nothing else’ but when I’m away from him I have a chance to think over what’s wrong in the relationship and that maybe i need to move on. How do I decide rationally?

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

If you have doubts, it’s best to move on. It’s only fair to both of you. He deserves the chance to find someone who’s truly in love with him, and so do you. :)

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Did you talk to him about what’s wrong or missing out of the relationship? I think it would be fair to give him a chance at working on issues. Also maybe he could point out a few things too about what you could do to help or what his issues are with you.

Are you interested in someone?

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lara_adamso offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

Isn’t he wonderful?! And doesn’t he make you laugh? And don’t you love those stupid jokes you share, and the safe feeling you get when you know he loves you and wants to be with you? Isn’t that worth it? I feel the same thing about my bf..and I keep asking for advice…but trust me…you won’t believe anything they say…I hate the doubts…and I hate being unsure….but I’d rather those…than none of his love at all…I gave him the choice of being with someone with doubts or without me…he chose with me…and I love him 3 so we’re together: Until something happens that should change what we are for better or worse…not these stupid little worries…try and ignore them…I hope whatever happened or is going to happen will ultimately make you and him happiest! Love, someone whos knows how that feels…

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