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i think my friend is a lesbian, and at her last sleepover, i think she was touching me up and putting her hand up my top and stuff while i was asleep
what should i do should i talk to her about it(which will be very embarassing) or what
please help me!
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Well, what makes you think she was touching you?
Why do you think she was touching you?
If there is a good, legit reason why you think that, then you should bring it up.
If its just an “i dont know” situation, then leave it be. You don’t want to mess up a friendship because you “didn’t know” if she was touching you.
when i woke up my t shirt had been pushed up and my trousers were lower than usual and the duvet had been moved around
That doesn’t mean much. Could it be something else? What even makes you think she’s a lesbian?
Talk to her about it, don’t pull up examples or suspicious until she brings it up, just ask her generally and have an open, honest discussion from there. Take it one step at a time, don’t jump to conclusions.
when i woke up she was like right up close to me touching and she keeps looking at me lovingly
Honestly, I think it might just be paranoia.
I say that you shouldn’t talk to your friend about it.
If she is a lesbian, she will come out on her own.
She doesn’t need any accusations of molestation.
thanks for your advice everyone
are you sure that she was touching you? if yes you should have reacted there and then. if she is your friend dont do anything silly couse you may loose her friendship just pay more attention to what she does from now on,you might be able to discover the truth by watching little things or mention that you had a strange dream and see her reaction. or just be carefull when you sleep together again if it happens say something
could i ask how old you TOO are?
hello guys. i am also gng thru a similar problem. my husband’s female cousin is here to stay with us for a little while. the other day my husband’s friend was over and they slept in one room so me and my hubbys cousin (lets call her X) slept in one room. at about 3 am i woke up and saw that X was feeling my body and was just about to get her hands on my breasts. i turned around and saw her just staring at my face. i was a bit shocked so i didnt know how to react. my reaction was “X!! is somethign wrong, are u cold, do u need a blanket?”
to this i got absoultely no reaction. she immediately turned her back towards me and moved to the far side of hte bed and went to sleep. i dont exactly know wat to do.
X is suffering from severe diabetes and is also a very very spolit girl (18yrs) she is known for her temper in her family and openly yells at her parents and cusses at them each time she gets angry. ever since she moved in she is extremely withdrawn from me and my husband.. never says hello to my friends.
i dont know exactly know wat to do in this situation. i hope u can help.
thats gay ****
my friend lauren is a lesbian becauz she licked my private
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