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The Butterfly

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.
One day a small opening appeared, he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole.

Then it seemed to stop making any progress.

It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily.

But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.
The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened!

In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us.
We would not be as strong as what we could have been.
And we could never fly.

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kelim offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

so meaningful, so true. thanx!

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Midvale, UT, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Wow, I help a lot of things. But this really makes you think. Thanks

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I’ve talked to a few people today that should be reading this right now!
So well illustrated.

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elysium offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t have posted this anonymously; you should take the credit for this because it’s great. I’ve had a life where I have had to struggle at a lot of things (not as much as some people though) and I think when we are able to make it through these difficult times, we become much stronger. Just like the point this story is making.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

you may call it god i call it physics.Its like a tree reaching to the sky growing ,growing .Suddenly it stopped growing it realize it cant pump no more water up the trunk.”From the Book phone numbers to heaven”The task is getting to heavy even though the whole Universe is blind, guided only by the forces it created so precise ,that there is nothing left out..

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