Love help: me n my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years…its

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me n my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years…

its a long distance relationship we live about an hour apart…we see eachother quite often but when we dont he gets mad when i go places and puts down my friends and says im doing things wrong when i am with them and if im not home @ a certain time to answer his phone call he FREAKS. he says we dont have anything in common and i am not interested in anything hes into..which is sorta the truth but he told me if i dont change my life and the things i am into its basicaly over and it will not work out…he just really stresses me out but I love the guy soo MUCH!! i dont know what to do!!!

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i_am_a_girl 247 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

he’s a jerk! tell him HE’S the one who needs to change!

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carnivale 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

That is kind of a no brainer. You shouldn’t have a guy that makes you change for himself. That is selfish and you shouldn’t be with a guy like that. Long distances are hard and i’m sorry but it is only for a select few couples.

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Snar 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Yeah you really should not have to change for him, thats kind of crazy. You’ll never enjoy yourself even if you do. Tell him that, tell him you love him but you cant change who you are. And if he cant except that, well… I think you know where tha very well might lead.

i dont think that an hour away is really long distance so I disagree with carnivale, its not like that should really affect nething.

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carnivale 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Well i mean long distances not really an hour
your right that is not really a long distance

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

thx guys i know i have to do whats best..just cant get to that point yet for some reason

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

good luck

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kim. 54 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t have to change yourself for someone to love you.
He should love you for you.
From reading this, he doesn’t sound like he deserves you.
I mean, I don’t know. Just my opinion. :\
I hope things turn out the best for you. ♥

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Personally, I would break up with him. Who wants to deal with all that negativity? Plus he seems a bit controlling.

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