guy help: To the ladies, how do you like to be approached by a guy who is interested in you? - Help.com

not too forward and show a a strong interest in what I have to say and smile lots.

and be urself.

I think I am just an old romantic, I like he flirting and suggestion rather than straight forward “I like you”..

I like it mild and gentle. And persistence is the key for me. :)

I like it forward I like to KNOW if a guy likes me it un-confuses things… Lol!

I like the guy making the move first but take it slowly from there. although i am a hard core femenist. but some times i like to be pampered once in a while.

Be sweet and confident! Compliment something unique about her like her smell (only if she’s wearing perfume…otherwise its a little creepy), her hair or eyes. Smile and be kind. Confidence is a must. Ever noticed that even people who arent completely beautiful are still attractive when they’re confident. It’s like they know something they have that everyone should want. Nothing beats sweet and confident. I’d fall in love with you asap. :)

it really depends on how the conversation went before you asked that. my first instinct was to tell you not to say it. but if it was in a joking cute way following a great conversation, i might go for it. i’d keep out the ‘at 9′ part tho…if she has a busy life like i do she might need a day or so haha

saying something like ‘would you want to go out for (drinks, coffee, movie…) sometime’ would be perfect. it shows good intent :O)

I would like it if a guy approached me by giving me a million pound check for nothing.

spiritedsoul wrote:
I would like it if a guy approached me by giving me a million pound check for nothing.

Lol but that could mean he thinks your a hooker… :(

confident but not cocky
a bit of shyness may show he really cares though so that’s ok

he has to be polite and sincere

a bit flirty is always fun :]

The simplest way is usually best. I find that “hey, do you want to (insert activity here)?”
You could say anything from “hang out”, grab a cup of coffee” or “take a walk”…

Although this usually comes after a small amount of conversation, so you’ve already kind of established yourself as a cool guy to hang out with… but I enjoy “laid back” way more than the “sweep her off her feet” approach.

I’d say the biggest thing is not to assume anything. If you want to ask her on a date, just call it a date, don’t make her guess. That can get messy and awkward. ^_^
Good luck!

It would be nice if he would come up to me and start talking like friends. He must be sure of himself, (but not overconfident) so he can keep up the pace of interesting discussion.