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There are going to be plenty of girls you will like. Trust me find another. What if it doesnt even work out. Dont limit yourself to the girls your friends are with. Go out for a jog or walk, look out for any cute girls. Or go to the mall, but those girls are high maintenance lol.
The best thing would be not to do anything right now, unfortunately. She loves this guy at the moment, even if he is a jerk. The time is not right. Plus, is it worth losing a friendship over? That you will have to ask yourself IF and when the time comes that they break up. But it doesn’t seem to be the right time for success since she’s crazy about your friend right now… regardless of what you’re seeing, she’s not seeing it yet! You’ll just have to tell yourself that she is not available right now and try to quit thinking about her for the moment… you can retrain your thoughts with a little effort!!
seriously though, your not gonna hit on his girl cause u think he is an ***. he is your friend, your letting a girl wreck ur train of thought. ur friend deserves as much as any guy to learn how a relationship works. dont do it. go find another cute girl and tell her all your bull. then when u get to know her it wont be bull anymore.
guitar.in.my.heart. wrote:LOL True, true, very true.
Or go to the mall, but those girls are high maintenance lol.
high five lol
Talk your friend and tell him you think he treats her like ****. No one deserves that. As for you, if you truly like her, think about the reasons why? Did you know her before they were dating? If so, what did you think about her then? Is there a chance you feel the way you do simply because she’s taken?
its clearly a physical thing, not worth going behind a friends back. you need a girl alrite, but not your friends. dont do it.
i knew her before and thought she was amazing. but then she went on this trip, with billy and them 2 got together. i dunno what to do, i love her. but he treats her like ****. i want her, i told her and she said she doesn’t want this to get between us, but she loves billy. i hate it. ARGH!
I’m sorry for the frustration. IT SUCKS! That’s all you can say. You can’t help how you feel for another person, don’t try to fool yourself. But keep in mind, sometimes trying to fix things can really do the opposite so think things through a great amount before you act. And just to assure you, as time passes your feelings will lessen. I know you can’t see that now, it seems impossible. But it will. Hang in there.
Have you told her how you feel…
look if you really do like her that much, trying to get with her now will only push her farther away. you need to explore other options. when you limit yourself like that, it stresses you out. is this keeping you from doing other stuff you like to do? if it is, thats not a good sign. keep tabs, joke with her. be her friend. do not flirt with her.
]Have you told her how you feel…
obviously yes, he doesnt need to bug her anymore about it. its not all about him and how he feels. i believe the girls thoughts and feelings are involved too. you need to explore other options. ppl get rejected so what. if you get a shot later down the line. go for it. relax for a minute and tell yourself that its not such a big deal.
What can i do if my mate is going out with this girl that im close with, and i start to like her?
this girl (charlotte) is going out with my mate billy, and she LOVES him, she told me she cant stop thinking about him, and billy treats her like ****! seriously she was an hour late to the park and he dumped her arounf the lads to look hard but then he text her 3 hours later saying imsorry im sorry i love you.
but now i cant stop thinking about her, she beautiful, amazing, funny, sweet, loving, perfect, but she keeps going back to billy. hes an *** he dont know how to treat a girl! he threw a really thick peice of wood at her hard! and i was gunna kick the **** out of him but i didn’t want to make a scene.
i would do anything to make her happy, anything.
please any advise would help.
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u said you told her and she doesnt want to get involved. respect that. thats all im going to say. i think my point is clear. you need to give her space, she likes your friend and thats that. do not let your emotions dictate your actions. its the mature thing to do.
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What do i do if i fall in love with my best mate and she going out with my other mate?
i knew this girl called charlotte for like 2 years and i thought she was beautiful, and perfect, and i realised i love her and then there was a trip to america, with my school, so i thought ill tell her there and it would be all good, and wonderful. but then my best mate billy came on the trip and got with her over the week. and she feel in love with him. and now im still her, in love with her as she is with my best mate, and i didn’t want to say anything because it would make a scene. i was at the park today and she had never looked better, her hair, her laugh, her body, her personality, i cant live without her.
i miss her every second im alive.
her treats her like ****, he dumped her for going out, and being a hour late, to the park once. and today, he was throwing sticks at her, and big logs. i was gunna hit him but didn’t, and 3 hours after he dumped her he text her saying i love you i miss you i was a dick, when in the park he was like, **** her i dont care about her at all anymore.
all i want is to know what to do.
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