Love help: i was going out with my boyfriend for a month and a half before

chase_poirie

Lafayette, LA, US

i was going out with my boyfriend for a month and a

half before we broke up, and its been about a month and a week SINCE we broke up and im still NOT over him, what the hell should i do?

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Rahat Lokum 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Take more time, as long as you need.

cmoxino #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

if you really love him try to reapproac him and tell him how you feel

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chase_poirie 3 #
Lafayette, LA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

i try to call him often but he never answers and i have no other way of getting in touch with him, idk wat ta do

nikkkinakamiti 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

hunn
love hurts and it can take ages b4 u get over him
but u will

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cmoxino #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

then you should try to get over him. try to go out and meet other guys or just go out wth your friends. working a lot will help you since it’ll keep you busy. sooner ir later you’ll be over him, trust me

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theresape 10 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

If you went out with him for a month and a half, he was not exactly your boyfriend. Just someone who was getting to know you. At that point, you are just seeing whether you like each other. He didn’t. You did.

That may sound cruel, but you can’t MAKE someone like you or love you. The best you can do is take a few days to be sad, then try to figure out what insights you can take from the experience, and move on.

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you? It doesn’t add up to anything but heartache.

One warning: Next time, don’t give your heart in a month and a half! You need much more experience with a person before you can reasonably begin to think of him as your boyfriend.

Good luck.

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chase_poirie 3 #
Lafayette, LA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 2 minutes after post)

idk i guess gay people fall in love easier than straight people do, but thank si will take ur advice

theresape 10 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Good luck to you, hon. i don’t think it’s about gay or straight–straight people can be impetuous, too! It’s more about taking the time to build a relationship, and really getting to know a person over the long haul in long kinds of situations, before you start thinking long-term.

I can’t say I’ve always followed my own advice on this, by the way! The start of a relationship is such an exciting time, I know, and it’s hard to hold back. But you just have to be prepared for anything throughout the initial stages. Enjoy them, by all means, but enjoy them for what they are–a delicious introduction that may or may not lead to a lovely, lifelong story.

Be well!

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chase_poirie 3 #
Lafayette, LA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 12 minutes after post)

i knew him for about a year before i started dating him because he was one of my good friends, but i guess i still should move on, thanks a lot

theresape 10 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

I’m sorry you are feeling this heartache.

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