Love help: How do i deal with the fact that I’m in love with some one who knows but really dosnt care? - Help.com

finish with them and move on! if they dont love you back it will just cause you more pain in the long run

find someone to love who does care! they’re out there and will bring you sooo much more happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction!!

things that are easy aren’t worth it anyway

how old are you, by the way? that makes a big difference in how you go about doing this.

okay. it will get so much easier once you’re 18 and can venture outside of high school. college is a great place to meet people, but until then try volunteering. volunteering is a great way to meet good quality people and give something back at the same time. look for a habitat for humanity group, or volunteer at a local soup kitchen.
you’ll be able to meet more friends too, this way you can be happy whether you’re single or taken. :O)

college is wonderful, you should be excited!! what is ku?

well you’ll definitely be able to meet a ton of people there, especially since it’s a state school. so don’t worry, you’ll be able to find a better guy soon enough :O)

any time! good luck!! :O)

hahaha i think that’s a fabulous idea. i have to be on my way now, but if you ever need anything else, let me know. especially college questions, i just graduated so i know how the system works :O)

It takes two to make a relationship. If one person can’t or won’t do it, for whatever reason, then it’s best to move on. A relationship has to work both ways, and both people need to be happy with it. Both people have to CHOOSE to participate in it or it just can’t work.

Agreed with cattail. Plus, it’s about the worst feeling in the world when they know how you’re feeling but don’t even care.

It’s not worth that emotion. Save it for someone who will care and return it.

This is probably one of the most horrible feelings that you’ll ever have. But, what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger, right? Picture this, 10 years down the road, you’re married and happy and all of a sudden, they’re on the outside looking in on you. Relationships, whether they be friendships or beyond take commitment from two parties. If one party feels that there is no effort to put in, then its high time to find someone else who gives a ****. I went on in something like this for 2 years. It killed me everytime my phone would ring, I’d get an instant message, I’d get an e-mail, but ultimately, I had to give it up. As much as this person tried to “help me through the one-sided feelings” all he was doing was feeding the fire to use it against me later on. It hurts, its horrible, but its survivable and you’ve got a long bit of life ahead to worry about more serious matters. I’ve said it once, I’ll say it 1000 times, people are a dime a dozen. Just because one person doesn’t fit doesn’t mean that there aren’t 4000 out there that will :)

if they don’t care, they aren’t worth being cared about.
thats my take on life.