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i have been seeing a guy for about a month, i have known him for 6 years though.

we were supposed to go clubbing last night with friends but he texted and said he wasn’t coming because he ‘had nothing to wear’ so i was a little annoyed with him as we had been arranging it for the past two weeks but i went out with friends anyway, towards the end of the night a guy came over and asked me to dance with him, so I did… we ended up kissing among other stuff but did not have sex… it’s just that it felt so right with him even though i had just met him, so i gave him my phone number and we have been texting each other since. thing is i dont really know what to do now about my boyfriend… my friends keep saying ‘your only young once and you should go for them both as just a bit of fun’ but im confused about it…. anyone have any ideas?

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5 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Don’t go for both of them at the same time…unless you have no problem possibly having two guys fighting over you. You have to figure out what qualities are more import to you. Guy #1 has 6 years of friendship. Guy #2 has one make-out session. Are there other qualities (besides the make-out session) that make guy #1 worth dropping for guy #2? If you’re not sure, maybe you need to break things off with guy#1 until you can figure out what you really want. Not fair to hang onto guy #1 while you’re thinking about someone else.

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