Love help: I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year in fact next month should’ve been our 1st 1 yr. - Help.com

I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year in fact next month should’ve been our 1st 1 yr.

anniversary. She’s someone whom i really care about but sometimes i just take her for granted. I know that she really cares for me and love me even though she doesn’t say it because i know i can feel it everytime we are together. About few months ago she started crying and asked me a question that i wasn’t prepared to answer yet. She asked me where is our relationship goin? what is she to me and what do i really feel about her. i had trouble answering this question because at the time we were only been together for only 6months so i kinda got my way out of it. Then finally on Friday, it was one of those saddess day that i will remember for the rest of mylife. She came in my room and i saw tears began flowing in her eyes and she couldn’t even speak to me. I was scared that somethin bad might have happened to her so i asked her what is wrong. She kept on crying so bad that i went to go hug her and she hugged me back so tight…then she finally said it. She told me “I can’t be your girlfriend anymore” I was taken back from those words she said that i suddenly feel weak but i have to ask her why? Then she said that the day before we met on friday she went out to eat lunch with her ex and she realized that she might still have feelings for him….i asked her if somethin else happened between them and she said that all those times that we were together i was the only guy that she ever think about and been with..
And now she said that she wants to take some time for herself to think things through because she said that it wouldn’t be fair is she’s with me but she still have some thoughts about her ex.
she kept crying on me that whole time and at the same time im holdin her i realized that tears began flowing in my eyes and when she looked up at me she cried even more because i began to shed tears.
She told me that she doesn’t want me out of her life but she need to be alone and think things true..
And i told her that i will give her time and i will always be here if she ever needs me back again.

Now i finally realized how much she means to me, after not seeing her for few days i was drowning in lonelyness because i miss her so bad.

i don’t know what to do whether i should call her or just give her more time. I’m just afraid that i might loose her for good.

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