life help: So Fed Up. - Help.com

No, that is never a solution, it will just make everyone you know and love feel worse than you do now. Why don’t you start by telling us exactly how you feel. You will feel much better. Just say what’s on your mind.

that’s exactly how i feel but don’t end your life.

nothing or no person is worth ending your life over. I use to feel the same way. Life can be a beautiful thing. You just have to learn to overcome your obstacles.

I feel that way too and I’ve thought of ending my life too. You feel alone but there are two people here who feel the same as you. We are not alone we have each other. That is the great part of this website. Anytime you feel alone there are people here to talk to. And it is hard, believe me I know. But ending your life is not a solution its just an end.

Okay, you need to take a concrete step in the right direction. Start by admiting the simple things in life you can do. Can you read? Can you write? Tie your shoes? Don’t dodge the question like you usually do, give me a straight, simple, honest, yes/ no answer, and we’ll take it from there. Can you do these things?

Okay, what else can you do? Think small, now, don’t go off into a negative rant. What little things can you do?

But how are you that dumb? You said you can read and write, now not everyone can do that, can they? It takes some competence to understand what other people are saying, written and spoken. That’s a huge step away from being ‘dumb’. Now let’s think of the things you can do, that you are good at. There’s got to be something. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone has they’re strengths. I know it might be hard, but I challenge you to think: what else can you do?

You shouldnt end your life because it doesnt come back on you it comes back on everyone else around you

Yes, yes, that’s good! Isn’t that good? You can take care of yourself, groom yourself, do things for yourself, now what else can you do?

if that is your picture on your avatar, then that is one strength you have. you’re very beautiful.

Ok im another person who feels like this alot, but i never seriously considered ending my life, you just needed to find a purpose, i kinda got depressed an stuff an got sick of everything—-but all you gotta do is find a purpose, an if you cant find one then you should make your purpose to find a purpose coz then you have a purpose, just hang on, everyone finds their calling eventually, and it is in no way somones calling or purpose (im gettin sick of tht word)or whatever to end their life.

That’s right! You have to understand, you are a very pretty girl, contrary to what you think. But that’s hard to come to terms with when you can’t recognize the little things first. We’ll get there, but at this stage I think she needs to slowly convince herself that there’s more to her than she thinks.

No, you are pretty! But that’s an important point. Everyone can think you’re pretty but yourself, but you still don’t have to think that. It comes to show that we could have every reason to think one thing, but it’s the thing that makes us doubt, question or disbelieve in it that we need to deal with. Why would you think you’re not pretty? What is the rational thought behind this? You can’t just think it’s because you’re ‘just not pretty’, if you do, then is that much of a reason at all? What specificially makes you not pretty, what is it about yourself that everyone else doesn’t see? Does it even exist?

Beauty is only skin deep.. you can be as pretty as you want and still be hated by everyone because your a ***** or just be average looking and be attractive too AND a nice person..

What would it take for you to believe what we’re telling you? Is there some reason you don’t buy into what everybody is saying?

Well, let me ask you then. What kind of person do you want to be?? I mean, if you could change something (not physical) what would it be??

That’s a start. Change it. If you can pull yourself together now, dry up your tears, and smile, then you are one step closer to becoming who you want to be.

Things like this make you strong. Once all of this has past, you will be a much stronger person.

being strong is a mental task.. sometimes its better not to be strong as strong people sometimes are much weaker deep down..

gl and just think for a sec whats wrong? why dont you think your pretty you are very pretty. thats not good you need to belive in your slef a small(big) start is finding the buety of you and then finding the buet in you

I am saying all of this from experience. I have been through this before. I have thought about suicide, I have hated my life, my friends, family and everything else around me. Just look at all of the people who don’t have what you have. There are many people who don’t have a place to sleep, food to eat, or anyone who cared about them. Next time you think about how bad your life is, think about these people.

You dont need to end your life coz of the relationship you are into, try to pray regularly and discover where the problems comes from then you can tackle it

So, what are you good at?

Well i mean, you hate life…what are you good at? for example Ima visual effects student/Film im really good at making things blow up…(in a computer..lol)

You shouldn’t end your life. I’m sure most people here feel at least one of the things you described. I know i feel a few. But life is too important to waste x