Love help: Girl friend probelm

mr.hookahhooka

Girl friend probelm

okay so me and this girl have been goin out of about 11 days not and she told me something that she dint want me to tell anyone and my smart self gose and tells my freind who asks the girl who its about and she tells my gf and she got really made at me n i feel horable and i still love her but idk how to make it up to her we talked and she said she still likes me still wats to go out but she cant trust me and thats a big part of a relationship n i cant stop thing of her all day so idk what i should do ….. should i break up with her …. should i take her out …. should i give her her space ….. idk what i should do anyone have any ideas and things i can to to make it better

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carnivale 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Don’t break up, take her out, give her some space but not too much, prove to her that she can trust you. Tell her something that you would not want anyone else to know.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

basically, you cant do anything about the trust thing except build it back up again. be really sweet and upfront with her. do something really romantic and nice. tell secrets to her. just kind of be the perfect bf for a while and eventually shell forget about it.

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wheelzkidd4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

hmm.. acknowledge that u messed up.. tell her that.. men talk 2 each other about stuff.. this is what men do.. just like women talk in bathrooms when applying makeup etc.. tell her that u meant no harm in confiding in ur friend about this..

give her some time.. trust takes a lot of time to build up..

BE HAPPY :)

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mr.hookahhooka #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

okay those are all good but how do i build back the trust

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carnivale 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

We told you

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mr.hookahhooka #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

tell her i wouldnt want anyone eles to know??

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

know what?

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mr.hookahhooka #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

scratch the last one
i ment tell her something that i wouldnt want anyone eles to know

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carnivale 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

YES!!! let her know you trust her and that she can still trust you. after all you are human and human makes mistakes.

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mr.hookahhooka #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

okay thanks

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

dose anyone eles have any ideas

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Nutmeg 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 7 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Just keep apologizing… and yes tell her your secrets… and give her time.

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cattail 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Well, apparently she’s willing to forgive you, but it’s true that she’ll now be hesitant to share certain things with you because it seems you might go telling other people. It will take some time to prove yourself to her again. Tell her you’re sorry and you really won’t betray her like that (and I’m hoping you can keep that promise next time??!) … then carry on.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Yeah i agree tell her something you dont want anyone else to know. And say your sorry and you shouldnt have and you werent thinking and that you want her to trust you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 hours, 36 minutes after post)

never lie again. its gunna take time for her to trust you fully again. stay with her, but give her some space. do what she says and dont tell anyone else. if she really likes you, she will find a way to forgive you. ive made so may mistakes with my gf, but she loves me and is still with me, so just keep doing good. sometimes it takes a mistake for you to realize what you need to do.

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cattail 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 hours, 8 minutes after post)

You know trust is a big thing, so you shouldn’t have done this when she trusted you with something… but why? Did you not respect her enough to keep your word to her? If you learned something here, tell her you really learned something and you know trust is important and that wasn’t the way you wanted to start off, by making a mistake like this! You can only prove it to her by never betraying her confidence again…

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