boyfriend help: Im addicted to masterbating.

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Im addicted to masterbating.

Im a 20 year old woman, with a good job, and a long term boyfriend. Our sex is great, but i have never climaxed thru having sex with him. So wenever i get the chance i touch myself. i go to the toilet at work and do it, all the time when im at home, in the bath, ive even stopped on a long journey in my car and played with myself, am i horny or just plan wierd!?!?

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Anonymous #
5 years ago (36 minutes after post)

Horny. Just a guess, but maybe the lack of orgasm w/ your boyfriend is causing this urgent desire to climax, whenever, wherever. It’s probably related more to that psychological need than anything else. I mean, did you feel this way before you started dating him? If yes, then you know this is something you may have to consider talking about with a professional. If no, then you’re probably just really sexually energized…

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An Unknown Location | 5 years ago (21 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Have you talked to your boyfriend about it. if not I would suggest doing so. at the very least start telling and showing him what you like. I know it sure helped me and my girl. Sit in front of each other and watch each other masterbate. it is a little weird at first, but the fun only gets better. Hopefully by watching you he will learn a few new tricks. there are many different techniques to make a woman orgasm. You are the only one who knows for sure what works. don’t be affraid to experiment. maybe even pick up some books to read. there are a lot out there that make it fun and not make you feel foolish. Good luck

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opko #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (3 months after post)

I am having same problem
I am reading more and more articles like this to avoid this problem

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

I believe male and female masturbate frequently, it’s just kept to themselves because of the guilt it makes many feel. If you’re not injuring your body and don’t feel depressed after masturbating you are not hurting anyone.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

look i have the same problem only i’m 13 i do it all the time even before i wrote this i had an orgasm i do it when ever i get a chance it doesent matter to me if i’m alone in the room i just care the person not to see me but it’s changed i do it alot less now because of my friends were almost allways together and i don’t have much time to do it also i have promised to myself to stop and i don’t do it…well my record is exactlly 4 months and 27 days and then i give into the plesure again you shold be strong enought to stop for good you just have to promise it to yourself and spend more time with friends and if anyone knows about your problem ask them to be with you most of your free time you should be able to stop HOPE I HELPED and YES I’m useing a fake e-mail it exsists but it aint mine

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

yes this is problem b/w 15-20 age. i am sure that if you aviod sex b/w this period
deffinetly you will be enjoying your life full of sex.reasone is that this is period of growing. so promes yourself the time will come.till now what happen forget it

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 years, 1 month after post)

Hi
Its Normal, I am a man who love the exactly the same like you its good just need BF to understand!

Me i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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ariella2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 years, 10 months after post)

is goood ba

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