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How do i tell a guy i like him?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (0 minutes after post)

hey dude… can I have your babies?!

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

j/k :)

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

be yourself. flirt, guys like flirting… they love the attention. If he responds well to flirting, for example he doesn’t push you away and say, “leave me alone”… then when the time is right (and you’ll know) just tell him. - softly and quietly.

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_SilentNightmares_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

but what if he likes someone else??

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

that only matters if the someone he likes is your friend (and she likes him too) or if that someone else is his girlfriend. Only for those two reasons would you leave him ALONE. Otherwise, he’s fair game- and you should flirt away!

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

just remember the old saying, “all is fair in love and war”. Meaning… when you compete for a guy, you need to expect to get some of that back on you.

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_SilentNightmares_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

how do i tell him i have feelings for him??
Cuz it CAN be kinda awkard.

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helpmepayforschoo offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Just be your self. The worst any one could say is no. Youve heard it before…..and honestly you will here it again. So just be yourself…..and speak up ……A CLOSED MOUTH CAN’T BE FED.

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Annessa_krizia_kayl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Just start off slowly ….Flirt….then get 2 knw him ….and then tell him

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_SilentNightmares_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (14 minutes after post)

what do i do if he just sorta rejects me in his
own silent way & then things become awkward?

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Annessa_krizia_kayl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Idk try to make it seem as unawkward as possible ….Maybe he Feels the same way you do

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

if he rejects you in any way… lean over, kiss him on the cheek and whisper… Your Loss! (this actually would make most guys think twice).

I know it will hurt you some, but the old saying is very true. “better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”.

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_SilentNightmares_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

lol that’s actually pretty clever lol thanks =]

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guitar.in.my.heart. offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Lawton, OK, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

basically ive found that most women like that men come up to them. but for those women that want to tell a man how they feel, just come up to them and ask them straight forward what they think of you. that right there gives them the go ahead to get feelings off their chest even if its not love. straight forward is the least akward way to go about it. if they seem to be hiding something still, you should let them know how you feel first. if he doesnt fell the same way well then dont fret. i agree with richard some.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

just go up to him and face those fears, but if you still can’t, you can always slip a little note in his locker or desk.

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alex_krystyn_lov offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

i have the same probleme! i like him, hes the girl i babysits older brother, i go crazy over him he lives 30 from me, i dont have his number or his adress but next time should i get it?? HELP!

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allisonn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 year after post)

run up to him and say you know someone who likes him and wants to go out with him and when he says who you say me and tell him you’ve always loved him and lean up and kiss him on the cheek and maybe he’ll say yes

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