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I think I’m paranoid..am I?

I have sadly begun to think my girlfriend is lesbian or some type of Bisexual, but I also think Im being paranoid. She is very “touchy feely” around one of her friends (We’ll call her Kaitie..her name) and her other friends, but not around me (Though she may just be nervous). One instance that made me think this is that after a day of state testing, they let us go outside. Well, I saw her “wrestling” with two of her friends (one being Kaitie) and she left it later when I came over, but when her two remaining friends were wrestling, she told one to life up Kaitie’s shirt. When I asked her, she said it was because Kaitie has like no boobs (Which to me is a sad answer). She has also seen Kaitie change clothes for a physical and seen her in a thong (which shortly after seeing, insisted that she get one) and she tells very intimate things to her (Underwear type, color, period, etc..even though that’s normal). The thing that REALLY bothers me is when she gets touchy feely around her friends (Slap ***, hold hand, hug etc etc etc)…

Can you help me? Thought you were my friend…Oh yeah… (Lol)

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jessica33313 offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

umm…that’s how girls act towards each other…ur a guy so she probably thinks that you don’t like to hold hands and hug you know

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