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There once was this guy…

and he used to be my bestest friend in the whole wide world. we grew up together, had our first kiss together… everything was just so right. Then i moved away. and now there’s this other guy, and hes AMAZZING. but whenever im with him i cant get my mind off the other guy. i know a lot of people will just be saying “just let him go” or whatever, but this is different to me, hes someone i will never forget.
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VKei offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Pick one OR the other, find him, let him know how you feel, wait for him, love him, be happy.

Just don’t try to play both sides. That’s not fair to you OR the guys in your life.

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2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Pick one OR the other, find him, let him know how you feel, wait for him, love him, be happy.
Just don’t try to play both sides. That’s not fair to you OR the guys in your life.
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thank you so much, i think thats what i will do.

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marionms offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Dracut, MA, US | 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Yeah I agree, don’t play with their hearts.
Sticking with the the tried and true might be the best idea.

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js78stew offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I agree. I would definitely tell him how you feel. Why did you move in the first place. maybe consider moving back for him or him moving to where you are.

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carnivale offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (34 minutes after post)

First off, you will never forget him, your first kiss and if you are feeling so passonite about him then you’ll never forget him. I will have to agree with VKei. Choose one. You can’t be on top of the fence. You have to choose which side of the fence to be on or you will never get off. Your first love always seems like your only one. It is not. Compare them. See which one has more qualites you like. Long distance realtionships are hard and only for a select few couples. Is the guy that you moved away from really worth being so far apart but still dating? Your right alot of people will be saying “let him go” but is that wise. Which one do you like being around with more. Think about if both guys were sitting next to you on eaither side. Who would you feel more comfortable laying your head on? But one thing you do need to do is no matter what your outcome is try with all your might not to think of the guy you moved away from when your with this other guy. You shouldn’t do that because that will cloud you judgment no matter what the out come. Choose one and don’t be so quick that you choose the wrong choice. I hope that you will choose the right choice.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Of course you won’t forget him. He was obviously an important aspect of your life. Most people don’t forget their first “love,” especially not their first kiss. But do you truly like this new guy? Would he be hard to forget, too? If so he’s probably someone worth keeping around.

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