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Hyper Nightmare
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WHATS GOING ON?

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I dont understand anymore, my friend Amy has been asked out by Liam again and shes getting stroppy cause she thinks ill hate her if she does but i keep telling her i wont and that i dont like him anymore [I DONT..i think] and now she get angry at me for the smallest things, like when i thought she was going to this after school club so i left and she ran past me calling me a “great friend” which made me wanna throw a tree at her, and now shes getting everyone against me but shes basicly filtered out all my loyal friends for me which could be a good thing…but there is John who i feel sorry for as Amy always pulls him away and tells him how much she hates me when shes mad at me and he tries not to ignore me but Amy always makes him go the long way home just so he cant talk to me….part of me wants not to be friends with her and ignore her for the rest of my life but as my other friends are friends with her that wouldnt be easy to do, and part of me wants to be bestest friends like we used to but we have nothing in common and easily argue and she seems to want to…..
Also i think my mums ran out on me and my dad which is a problem because she has the credit card and she uses it leaving the bills for my dad, hes really depressed and i find myself being FORCED to be happy because he has mentioned suicide as most things are going wrong in his life and that me being happy makes him feel good about life, hes really worried about her and i think shes gone of with this guy called Roy who she met in a chatroom and i HATE her for that but i dunno if i should tell my dad about him or the phonecalls from him cause im scared hes gonna hurt himself and i feel i cant trust my friends so ill feel alot worse if he left..

1) Should i try to change for my friend or is there something else i can do
2) Should i let my dad know what i know about my mum

P.S. I SWEAR I DIDNT WRITE THIS FOR PITY OR ANY OF THAT STUFF

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cdog2160 offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
US | 2 months ago (13 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Okay, you’re first question was ‘what’s going on’, and I can explain that it’s all probably just a little social issue you’ll overcome.

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nochturn offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (13 hours, 31 minutes after post)

the stuff with your parents isn’t a little social issue. try to not get down about it. parents are just people like anyone else and they can be really stupid as well. sounds like your dad is being unintentionally selfish by threatening suicide (how drastic) and as far as your mom, she is grown and can take care of herself. i don’t think it would help your dad to hear about her chatroom antics. instead try to take him on walks and to improve himself in other ways to get over his depression.

hang in there. do try to detach to an extent and to stay happy. don’t read too much into your friends. if you play it cool like you aren’t bothered by a thing they will all sort out just fine.

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