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I have a situation.

I’m a single mother who has been looking for a job ever since my son was born 3 months ago. I have been out o a job a lil over a year. I was supposed to start school about 3 weeks ago but couldn’t because I didn’t get the money in time. I am currently living with my mother becuase I am the one that helps everybody with everything but yet nobody is helping me. I am getting kicked out of my house in 3 months and have no where to go. I am going to be out on he streets and have no idea what to do. I haven’t given up hope. I am still looking for a job but I really don’t want to end up in a shelter with my son. I’m not looking for charity just advice. Before my son was born I had a feeling that I was going to have problems and thought about putting him up for adoption but could’t. Now I feel like I am making him suffer because I can’t give him the things that he needs. What can I do?

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anneliesehuss offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tiffin, OH, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

awww I know what you mean, if you still want to put him up for adoption this would be a good time. if not contact your local job and family services if you have one, sometimes they can help you out with stuff like that, with food stamps, and also try WIC if you have that as well, usually you can find them at the health department. Job and Family services can sometimes offer free housing, food stamps, and help finding a job, along with a lot of other things

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

If your a loving mom there isn’t much else a child needs. Some shelters arent so bad and many a single mother has been able to spring board with the help of a shelter, once again the only key thing is determination on your part.

Why is you mother kicking you out? Here is where I think you should focus your efforts. Family is a very important aspect of life.

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eexy offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

if your parents are kicking you out try to ask siblings or cuzions or aunts if you can stay with them until u find a job. have you tried going to job fairs and other stuff. i know how it feels when you have parents kicking you out of there house. it took me about 3 months to get a job. after that,

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Smile** offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

dont give up you will now have a bond with your son which should not be broken live can only get better once it is worse good luck xxxxxxxx with love to both of you

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candycoupo offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

yeah dont give up!
just like you told me: be strong
everything will be fine. (:

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