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My girlfriend is avoiding me and ignoring me because

I’ve missed a bunch of phonecalls this week from her because I have been so swamped with schoolwork, and appointments. She claims I no longer care for her or want to be with her and it has resulted in me having multiple emotional breakdowns due to the claims and the overwhelming amount of stress. I’ve tried to tell her in so many ways that I need her but she won’t listen, please help me

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

she sounds controlling and selfish, puttin her needs in front rather than urs. tell her about ur situation and how u feel, if she doesn’t care i don;t think shes healthy to have in ur life. whether u choose to brake up with her or not is up 2 u.

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frozen_sniper500 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

It’s very hard to talk to her right now, I have the feeling that because she thinks that I dont care for her anymore, she thinks that me wanting to talk with her means I want to break up or something.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

she sounds very negative about things. but if she thinks that lowly then she might be less willing to see things for how they really are.

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

make her a surprise and try to spend more time with her! she seems to need so much attention :) A rose and a romantic dinner or romantic walking or traveling can make miracles:)Good luck:) Or maybe just tel her that you love her so much:)

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chyea offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Warwick, NY, US | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Get the **** out while you still can! listen to me and get out!

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frozen_sniper500 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Thanks friendly, although, I have already tried these things… I left her a few gifts and cards for her, although I dont think she’s been in her locker at all today.

Chyea, I can’t. I love her to much to be apart from her, she has made me into such an amazing person and has done so much for me. She is my world.

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

If you think it really worths don’t give up! I think love is the most honest and clearest feeling we should fight for it! Hope the best for you:)

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littlenick offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 205 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Move away slowly! Don’t make any suddeen moves in front of your girlfriend! As soon as you are enough from her….RUN, FORREST RUN!!

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