There is a girl that I have liked for about 4 years now.
We met at school and were close friends right away. Later that year she and I went to the High School Christmas dance together. I asked her out there but she said no because she had just gotten out of a relationship with a good friend of mine. The next year she wrote me a letter and gave it to me the day before my birthday, It basically said that she liked me and said that she regreted saying no when i asked her out. We spent the next couple of days hanging out together because she lived in the same Trailor Park as me. At that time she was going out with some one and the amazing thing is that she broke up with him over the phone right in front of me. Telling him that she liked someone els and looked at me while she said it, well I found out in the letter that she was going to move in a month or so. It wasnt till now that I found out that if i had asked her out then she very well might have said yes and stayed here.
Well its about 3 years later from when that happened and Ive decided to go to the army. I went to her house last week and kind of hung out with her and tried to get to know her agian but I was really kinda cluless of what to say to her. She asked me why I was going into the army, i told her it was because i felt like there was nothing here for me and then she said that she was here, i dont how to take that. Should i take it as she still has feelings for me and wants me to stay here? I would like to talk to her about it but I’m a nervous guy when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would leave the army for her because thats how much i love her, and most will say that that is a bad desision, but I dont think so because i could live with her, her brother, and her brothers girlfriend. I would get a close job that worked about 35 hrs a week and i would do a 2 year online college course and get my bachlors in buissness managment. I want to leave the state of Michiagan very badly but if she gave the oppertunity for a real relationship with her you know one that lasted, I whould take it with no hessitaion. its really hard though because she has a boyfriend and i know that she likes him, even though she rights on myspace that shes not sure he likes her as much as he says he does, i dont want her to pass me by if the guy that shes with now is only going to be there for no more than a year or so. I would give it all up to be with her and i really mean that. Please If you have any suggestions on how I sould go about this give me an e-mail, I could go to her house, give her a call, write her a letter, etc… I just need help Thanks and My name is Jon her name is Jessica.
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There is a girl that I have liked for about 4 years now. We met at school and were close friends right away. Later that year she and I went to the High School Christmas dance together. I asked her out there but she said no because she had just gotten out of a relationship with a good friend of mine. The next year she wrote me a letter and gave it to me the day before my birthday, It basically said that she liked me and said that she regreted saying no when i asked her out. We spent the next couple of days hanging out together because she lived in the same Trailor Park as me. At that time she was going out with some one and the amazing thing is that she broke up with him over the phone right in front of me. Telling him that she liked someone els and looked at me while she said it, well I found out in the letter that she was going to move in a month or so. It wasnt till now that I found out that if i had asked her out then she very well might have said yes and stayed here.
Well its about 3 years later from when that happened and Ive decided to go to the army. I went to her house last week and kind of hung out with her and tried to get to know her agian but I was really kinda cluless of what to say to her. She asked me why I was going into the army, i told her it was because i felt like there was nothing here for me and then she said that she was here, i dont how to take that. Should i take it as she still has feelings for me and wants me to stay here? I would like to talk to her about it but I’m a nervous guy when it comes to this kind of stuff. I would leave the army for her because thats how much i love her, and most will say that that is a bad desision, but I dont think so because i could live with her, her brother, and her brothers girlfriend. I would get a close job that worked about 35 hrs a week and i would do a 2 year online college course and get my bachlors in buissness managment. I want to leave the state of Michiagan very badly but if she gave the oppertunity for a real relationship with her you know one that lasted, I whould take it with no hessitaion. its really hard though because she has a boyfriend and i know that she likes him, even though she rights on myspace that shes not sure he likes her as much as he says he does, i dont want her to pass me by if the guy that shes with now is only going to be there for no more than a year or so. I would give it all up to be with her and i really mean that. Please If you have any suggestions on how I sould go about this give me an e-mail, I could go to her house, give her a call, write her a letter, etc… I just need help Thanks and My name is Jon her name is Jessica.
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