guy help: I have trouble telling my boyfriend how I feel.

smileyface_rock

I have trouble telling my boyfriend how I feel.

Sometimes I choose not to, but he INSISTS that I tell him. I hate it that whenever he has a problem and I insist, he gets mad at me. I wish he could trust me more and I dont understand why guys keep things from us, but when we have problems we HAVE to tell them.

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kosmoi 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (0 minutes after post)

dump him

friendlyheart 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

that’s right :) Don’t be afraid if he doesn’t care about how you feel then he don’t really love you …

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smileyface_rock 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

but does he? I mean cause he always wants me to tell him how I feel, but he never tells me how HE fells.

friendlyheart 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

some people are shy or afraid of being judged ! But this is a sign of not trusting you :( maybe you should try to talk with him and tell him what you feel about this situation and see how he reacts:)

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smileyface_rock 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

yeah that is exactly what he told me that he does not want to worry me.

Plox Nork 14 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Yeah, if he doesn’t trust you, that’s a bad sign. It means he can’t be trusted. He could be hiding something important from you.

smileyface_rock 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

to do you think talking to him can help?

Snar 82 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

smileyface_rock wrote:
to do you think talking to him can help?

Yeah, I dont think you should leave him right away. I’ve been in the exact same situation, hell I AM that guy a lotta times and its hard. USually my gf is th eone with the problems so I try my best to just ignore it when she wont tell me whats the matter but i care for her so deeply that I really wanna noe and when she lies about it and says shes fine that really can cut me deep.

So usually my “problem” is worrying about her problems, so when she asks if I tell her that she’ll get upset and feel even worse so… lose lose.

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Plox Nork 14 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Maybe he’s just really insecure. Maybe he can’t talk about his problems cause they’re too embarrassing to him.

SuperxSammi 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

I’m Going Through Exactly The Same Sitution!

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