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I have been friends with this guy for 5 years.

Well call him Keith. I dated his friend way back then for about a year and a half. The relationship between me and his friend ended bad because i left him for another guy.
Five years later, with a divorce, and a child, keith contacts me. He wants to have a relationship with me. We had a wonderful time, had a couple of downs, but it was great. As our feelings grew, we got closer, it seemed that he was pulling away. I brought up my ex and we started talking about what would happen if he found out, and the conclusion was not good. We decided we that we would just be friends because it would cause too much problems. Mean while i am heart broken and try not to talk or contact him. The next day i got really drunk and ran into a bunch of old friends we use to have. I texted him and had little conversations with him about this person and that person.Next day i texted him sorry for being a drunk idiot. He picked a fight with me and now we are mad at eachother. How can i make it go back to it working?

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

try to explain him how you really feel ..if you love him and he loves you it doesn’t matter the people around you! You don’t have to care about your ex! he is gone remember it is ex! If you feel you are in love don’t give it up ! Keep your hope! talk with him he will understand you sure :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

well try to talk to him and tell him that ur sorry bout u bringing up your ex..
and that u really love him!
and no matter what dont stop talking to him becuase i know u can earn him back!!
good luck!!

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