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Is love blind or does it make the person blind?


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danny.a.byrn offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (0 minutes after post)

that is a beautiful question. I wish I had the answer

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helpingmehelpyou offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I think that only people can be blind, because the blinded stage of a relationship is more lust and attraction than it is true love. In the beginning, people are blinded to one another’s flaws. Eventually, however, people begin to see one another’s flaws and they have to reconcile and accept them in order to move into a mature and true state of love. Thus, love is only present once one is no longer blinded to the other person. How can one person love another if they do not see them for who they are?

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CrazyInLove85 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Love isnt blind, and it doesnt make people blind either. The truth is people and love are very similiar. They both come in all different shapes, sizes and with different possibilities.

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thompsonmiss offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

love makes u blind to the other persons faults u think they r gr8 and ignore there bad habits and signs until it is too l8 do nt let urself b fooled

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Midvale, UT, US | 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Only blind? I thought it made you deaf, dumb and blind!! LOL

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Katieness offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

2greeneyes wrote:
Only blind? I thought it made you deaf, dumb and blind!! LOL

I agree!

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 months ago (8 hours, 36 minutes after post)

maybe it is a mixture of both.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 months ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

helpingmehelpyou wrote:
I think that only people can be blind, because the blinded stage of a relationship is more lust and attraction than it is true love. In the beginning, people are blinded to one another’s flaws. Eventually, however, people begin to see one another’s flaws and they have to reconcile and accept them in order to move into a mature and true state of love. Thus, love is only present once one is no longer blinded to the other person. How can one person love another if they do not see them for who they are?

yeah but for some reason when im blind people don’t like it. it tends to chase them away.

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