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So I like this guy…

..a lot….and I want to really um “turn up the heat” I guess while I’m flirting with him. I want to do the whole casual arm brush thing….but I don’t think I’d be able to do it all that casually. I also want to know how to hold his gaze for a few seconds…like, without looking weird. Finally, I want to be able to talk to him in the halls without getting shy and backing out. Plz help!

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boomboy92 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Do all those things, and it doesn’t have to be that casual, in fact the tension would make it more sexy lol. Just touch a lot (not inappropriately, just different places, like you do to your friends, but maybe more so) and for the gaze thing, if you look him in the eyes and just stay there for a tad longer, keep looking for a bit after hes turned away. Also, just talk as if he was just a normal friend, not someone you like.

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sarahdef offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Okay thanks! I also have a question that u could probably help with. Is it true that guys really like it when a girl bites her lip and looks down when flirting? Oh, also another quickie, are guys rlly attracted to the scent of vanilla?

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GB | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

the first one is depends how cute you make it look the second is any nice smell but not to much and not horrible chemical smell like cheap purfume

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Oh totally for both, cutesy things are really hot. A bit pouty like just for a second can be hot too, but not like i dunno, o this sucks pouty. And also licking your upper teeth is really hot, while thinking.

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mom4nutt offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

oh my goodness…….. how old are you?

These things come in time and natural and guys can always tell when you are trying too hard. In fact, they talk about it at parties behind your back.

Yes to any type of food smelling stuff. Hence the Taco Bell and planters commercials.
I say just say hi, smile your best smile coyly look over your shoulder at him when you wal by or say hey why don;t you give me a call and quite with all the tacky stuff.

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GB | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

there still at school mom let them learn its more fun

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Gotcha sorry if I offended! Still… go with food like lotions…guys love em and don;t know why

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GB | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

a way to a mans heart is through his stomach

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Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

realize that no matter how tough guys look …..they are all wimps.
It is best to ask a guy for some advice about something technical.
Cars,computers,vcrs…etc.
they love to look smart.especially in front of girls.
If your clever you can have him reaching over your shoulder to help you
with something.Then thats you chance for a little harmless touching.
Go for it.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

sarahdef wrote:
Okay thanks! I also have a question that u could probably help with. Is it true that guys really like it when a girl bites her lip and looks down when flirting? Oh, also another quickie, are guys rlly attracted to the scent of vanilla?

you are sure moving fast here talking about quickies already.
Vanilla no but maybe.Any pleasant sent in very weak level is nice.
The biting the lip can also look to be shy.Use with care.

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