friends help: There is this guy at school who likes me.

arts4life2

There is this guy at school who likes me.

He is really nice and all, but I just don’t like him back. I want to be his friend, but he just can’t take a hint to back off.

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Hi_Sai 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Pretend to have a boyfriend. DX

Or listen to renate8!

Cause I don’t know what I’m talking about! XD

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countrygirl 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Just tell him that you don’t think you are ready nor do you want a relationship like that right now. Tell him that you have too much going on for a boyfriend. Say to him that you really could us a male best friend though if he would be interested but other then that that’s all it’s gonna be. Explain to him though he has to back off pushing a relationship on you that you want each of you to treat each other like good friends. If he can’t handle that then just say hey to him and be nice to him when you see him and act like a friend and leave him alone. Hey, you might even try fixing him up with a friend of yours if you’re sure you don’t want the chance with him.

dotspot 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

So, stop ‘hinting’.

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ƒ(x)=healberry³ 3 #
Bellflower, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Talk to him about someone you have a crush on. Or tell him you like him only as a friend, but do it subtly. Or you can talk about a made-up guy that won’t take a hint.

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candycoupo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

tell him to back off
but in a nice way :]

Help me with: Should I just give it all up?

arts4life2 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

candycoupo wrote:
tell him to back off
but in a nice way :]

what is a nice way?

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Amethysteria 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (36 minutes after post)

You know what - he won’t back off until you speak abruptly to him. Even if it causes you to lose a friend, I don’t see why you would even want him to be your friend if he doesn’t have the kind of respect for you that a real friend would have. Use a harsh tone of voice and say, “For the last time, I’m not interested. Plus I don’t even want to be friends with someone who disrespects me.”
Ignore him from then on, because he’d be pretty stupid not to get the point by then. The nerve some guys have… My current boyfriend bothered one of my acquaintances for MONTHS until he gave up on her. Hopefully, you can resolve your situation sooner. Just report him to someone if he becomes a stalker… Good luck.

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dotspot 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (45 minutes after post)

arts4life2 wrote:

candycoupo wrote:
tell him to back off
but in a nice way :]

what is a nice way?

Burp in his face and tell him you just blew his best friend.

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candycoupo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (46 minutes after post)

hmm just let him know
its hard. but just try (:

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Tell him how u feel & if he dont except it it’s his problem not urs. i know how that feeling can be. i started going to a new school this yr & there’s this guy that liked me & i didnt like him back, he was nice & everything 2, b/c he seemed more like a best guy friend than a boyfriend. we still talk & everything but i wouldnt go out with him. ♥ basketball_girl.2010

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Just Some Girl 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I have the same problem. Kid at achool and on my street.. kinda like the annoying little brother/guy nextdoor type thing. He likes me, but i dont like him back. I told him I liked someone else and that I wasnt interested, but he didnt listen.. my friends and I are trying to think of another plan.. If it ends up working I’ll let you know. Just dont give in cause hes being annoying.

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