Love help: I can’t believe how upset I am over this girl. - Help.com

Sounds like a typical b****. Forget her, for your own good.

she’s actually a really nice girl

and I’m too attached now to leave

You can’t have a new relationship until you have an old one, dude.

well tell her!
i no how u feel u got 2 take ur chance
tell her its him or me *****! (well u dont have 2 say the ***** part)
if u dont want 2 do that just drop hints
and acidentaly run into her
hope thats good advice kinda confusing i no srry

It’s hard to say. here was this girl that I liked a lot. She flirted and stuff, I told her I liked her, and she said she doesn’t feel the same way. Go figure.

In short, girls are so freaking unpredictable.

You’re the “backup,” or “spare” boyfriend. How do you like that? If I were you, I’d put some distance between her and myself.

why would you want someone like that. no matter hownice she is. it’s not worth it. some up and down relationships work some dont. you claim she is nice but if that was the case why is she treating you the way she is. it dont seem like shes nice. it seems like shes screwed up. you even said so yourself, you feel like a backbone. she uses you and then when her man comes back in the picture you dont seem to exsist to her. you seem like a nice guy. find someone that will appreciate you. she’s not it

Well if you really love her then just be there. I think that eventually her and her ‘boyfriend’ will break up, and you’ll be there for her to help or whatever she needs. maybe she’ll realize why your doing it and take a chance. Just give it time and see where everything fits.