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haha. no. I give it a month.

again, it looks like an exponential downfall.

I’d like to tell you that these relationships dont work and that they arent real and that they cant last, but I know thats not true. Im sorry.

he is playing you both

NightForeverxx wrote:
No he’s a really moody guy >x> He gets mad or upset over pretty much everything and his first gf hurt him a lot so part of me says he’d rather date the online girl because he’d be hurt less by her =/

It’s possible that thats the reason. You just need to stand by him as a friend I guess cause I dotn see what more u can do if hes made the choice at this point to kepe goin with her. If they aremt meant to be then your time will come.

he doesn’t care about either of u sorry

NightForeverxx wrote:
O_o wow aren’t you a bundle of sunshine rowass.
First of all,he’s overly emotional about BOTH Of us o.O
And I haven’t brought up that I like him anymore Snar. I’ve been trying to be his friend,and I think it’s working a little…He called me today on his own,TWICE,and he NEVER calls me,so that was a plus. And he hugged me when I was sick yesterday too and no one else paid attention.

Oh so you havent told him then. Hmmm… well how do you think he’ll react?

NightForeverxx wrote:
O_o wow aren’t you a bundle of sunshine rowass.
First of all,he’s overly emotional about BOTH Of us o.O
And I haven’t brought up that I like him anymore Snar. I’ve been trying to be his friend,and I think it’s working a little…He called me today on his own,TWICE,and he NEVER calls me,so that was a plus. And he hugged me when I was sick yesterday too and no one else paid attention.

I am just trying to teach you of the evils of men. I am a man.

NightForeverxx wrote:
I Did tell him that I like him,but I haven’t said anything about it since I said it.
He did say that he likes me back,but he’s in a relationship and he can’t be with me. > So I’ve been acting a little like I don’t like him as much to not seem as pushy,and it seems like he’s coming to me a little bit more =/

Hmm its a toughie, I guess just try and respect his wishes and then maybe give it a little time to sink in then I guess you could tell him that you understand he feels like he cant be with u but u still do like him. Ur smart in tryin to not seem pushy, thats not something you wanna be with him rite now.

NightForeverxx wrote:
Yeah,I’ve been trying to just make him happy when the other girl makes him sad,by talking to him about things he likes,games and such. It seems to make him feel a little better > “

:) thas realyl nice of you, your a good friend to him and maybe someday hell realize what hes missing in the relationship department and turn to the girl whose been at his side. But dont waste forever on him.

NightForeverxx wrote:
I know,also,we’ve got a lot in common,and he’s the first guy who I’ve really liked in a long time since my ex (3 years ago),plus I didn’t have too many friends for a long time and I transferred to this school and I wasn’t used to people liking me or being nice to me,until I met him. So I’ve kinda liked him since I met him ^^;;

i hope it all works out :) if i can do nethin more to help just ask.

This site needs to fracture.

one.2wi wrote:
This site needs to fracture.

?????

I’ll make another post .. I shouldn’t have said that here.

I hope things work out for you ..

That’s very ironic because I”m basically in the same boat as you! hahah But you have to let him, choose and Iif it’s not you, you know that he has chosen the wrong girl

that relationship won’t work. 1 long distance relationship never works. they are both 2 young to be talking about love and haven’t been together long enough to even know what love is. they only talk online. one day they will realize that a relationship that they have will be impossible and want to date other people. in the meantime you continue to be there for him as if you dont care. he will realize what a good person you are and will want to be with you.

Xclusive1_4u_2nv wrote:
that relationship won’t work. 1 long distance relationship never works. they are both 2 young to be talking about love and haven’t been together long enough to even know what love is. they only talk online. one day they will realize that a relationship that they have will be impossible and want to date other people. in the meantime you continue to be there for him as if you dont care. he will realize what a good person you are and will want to be with you.

:/ I dont want to spam this post with replies but you are showing your ignorance by sayign that long distance relationships never work or that it is impossible. Its really hard and a lot of times it doesnt work but that doesnt make it impossible, I know of lots of cases where it does work and I’m in an online and long distance relationship right now of 8 months. Sure she can be hopefully that the probability of it workin may be significantly lower then if the person was near to her, but to say that long distance relationships are impossible is kinda… yeah.

Anonymou wrote:
Well,it seems him and the girl are talking less,and he is talking to me a bit more :]
I think my trying to avoid him a bit has been working,he seems to be getting a little closer to me now,and even came and hung out at my house today.

And I had two long distance relationships myself,that also didn’t work out,I met them on an online game,and he met his girlfriend on an anime forum =/ So…I just hope I get to be with him :)
I’ve always wanted a guy like him.

I hope you get him too, it sounds like he definitely enjoys to be with u already :)

Snar I am speaking from my own personal expereiences and what I have seen. Yes true some long distance realtionship does work but the majority of them fail. These people are rushing into things a little to fast. what’s the chance of it actually working?

Xclusive1_4u_2nv wrote:
Snar I am speaking from my own personal expereiences and what I have seen. Yes true some long distance realtionship does work but the majority of them fail. These people are rushing into things a little to fast. what’s the chance of it actually working?

I don’t know. And I’m sorry but I really don’t think I’m gonna argue this point here, its someone elses point and no longer relevant.