Year help: My mum is such a… Eargh!

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Hereford, F7, GB

My mum is such a…

Eargh!
Whys she got to be such a cow? my step dad bought me and my brother a Pc for christmas a couple of years ago and then my step dad asked us to install wireless and to do that we had to take it out of the loft and she just come up and looked and said no! Im not having that. Get it back in the loft now! And I said its only for 10 minutes and she said no if you have to bring it out of the loft then were not having it! It wasnt even anything to do with her. And then she was saying it was hers and we should of asked we were just doing what we had been asked to do! I’m sick of her thinking she rules the house hold and I got so annoyed! Shes always ordering everyone about the hous exspecially my step dad! Eurgh. I know it a small thing but its not the only thing she does…

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30ishinPA 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

tell her she needs to open her mind to others in put because it hurts that she dont.Be nice about it.

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Hereford, F7, GB | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i no hunnii
pearents can be terrible sometimes but there still our parents

bless ya

just take it easy

love yhoo

miss u when we leave

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Hereford, F7, GB | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

30ishinPA wrote:
tell her she needs to open her mind to others in put because it hurts that she dont.Be nice about it.

Eesh its a bit too late I told her she was a vindictive cow and I was sick of her selfishness…

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Wow… I’m curious how much Rent you pay your mom? I’m wondering who pays the grocery bill in your household? I’m wondering who does the laundry in your house? Who cooks the dinners? I’m actually wondering who is being a spoiled little brat?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

She does rule the house hold, the only other person to contest that is your step dad and since he doesn’t then its a closed matter for you. You on the other hand are privileged to live there and to be taken care of, the price of that privilege is that you don’t get a say in matters where your mom does not allow you to have a say. The reward your mother gets for taking care of you is the right to tell you what she wants you to do. Its quite a fair deal considering the resources and time each of you put into the relationship. You as the subordinate do how ever have can end the relationship by moving out of your parents home and start taking care of your self. Then you will have the privilege to make all the decisions but the price of that privilege is that you have to fend for your self.

Both situations have there appeal and their down sides; unfortunately in this world you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

listen, you are a person with wants and needs. yes i know she does all for you but she is most concerned with who you are as a person and would get most out of this if you said Look Mom Im sorry for saying that to you but I just feel like you dont care or hear or respect what I say or want. Not on all issues but these little issues.

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Nutmeg 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 4 months ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

lol you can tell who the parental types are… not that that’s a bad thing, and they might be right. But honestly, when you have to live with someone who has absolute control over what you’re allowed to do, the “little things” can be the worst.
Just tell your mom that you were just doing what you had been asked to do, and you’re sorry you snapped at her. Thåts just the way things are: kids and parents have to fight :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 hours, 49 minutes after post)

you will still harvest resentments. core word of relationship is relate. your mom wants that from you and believe me you need it!

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