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You are stepping on dangerous ground. Stay away from this married woman. Don’t cross the line. Run for your life Charlie Brown. Run Forest, Run!
She’s bored and wants to spice up her life. At 44, this is probably the last time in her life anybody is ever going to find her desirable. And she wants that one last time.
Run away as fast as you can.
If you want to do the nasty with someone, go out to a bar and pick up a young woman without hubby and baby drama.
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Don’t break up that marriage. Because that is exactly what you will be doing. Stay away from her.
She’s not going to leave her husband for you.
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seeuseeme wrote:
Are you married with kids?
was married 10 years ago for 2yrs. no kid.
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Do not wait around for her. Move on with your life. Let her work things out with her husband. If she wants to leave her husband, then tell her to call you once she is divorced.
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What if she leaves her husband for you are you ready at this age to start with kids, 7yo and 3yo, will you be able to change diapers at 44
Don’t know! maybe
Sadly, this situation is no good for anyone, and you’re only torturing yourself. You should try to get these ideas out of your head… remain friends, but distance yourself… and move on to someone who’s truly available. The situation is just too complicated and not likely to bring you any happiness… meanwhile you are wasting years loving someone who’s unavailable, yet is jealous for you to go out and know other people?? This is very unfair. Perhaps if you withdraw from the situation she will put more effort into her marriage again too. I’m sorry… I know this isn’t what you want to hear and it’s very hard… but you shouldn’t waste more years on a married woman with children!! It’s just a losing situation and too many people would be hurt if you continue to pursue this. Move on and meet someone new!!
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During the 10 years have you had relations, platonic, intimate, with other females? What happened to those if you had them. Are you just sexually attracted to this woman then take the ‘bar’ suggestion, you people are lucky you have this culture where a one night-stand is available and acceptable (where not destroying lives), at least you can get the basic urges in line, here this is not possible at all.
O! Yea, you think your culture is good. I did see lots of wife better and husband cheater from your part of the world. I do visit South Asian countries all the time.
hun, the best thing you can do for your sanity and your self is to severe ties… it may be that her hubby doesn’t want to go visit because he suspects something going on… why else would she push so hard to go over to your house?
Thier marriage is thier business and you are only told what she wants to tell because she wants sympathy because she feels wounded, but honestly there are many sides to a marriage and perceptions and those children deserve a mom and dad who are together and have a chance to make thier family work.
You deserve someone who isn’t attached who likes you for you and who isn’t confused and want something better, or you who happens to be convenient and perhaps can take her away and rescue her from her life. She has responsibilities and her excaping and running from her marriage shows you just what she would do if she and you were to get together or married.
Take this as a lesson learned and stay away from married women… It is heartbreaking to discover the one you love so deeply ( with problems or without ) has broken the commitment and vows… it makes one question everything about themselves and the relationship… and you know the saying you reap what you sow… or paybacks a Bitc&… well you don’t want your future wife doing this to you and blindsiding you years from now… it’s a dangerous game and the trill of the chase isn’t worth it.
sorry hands are numb from yard work… can’t spell.. thrill not trill…
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1 year, 6 months ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)
very hard!!! wait until she is done with her hubby. Do not get involve by your self.
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I am in love with a married woman. I know her for last eleven years. She is married for more the twenty years and her husband is about fourteen years older. Right now she is 44 years old same as my age. She said, she was never been happy with her marriage. I do love her but from her side is very unclear. If I talk to any woman she does get jellies. I do think about her almost every moment for last few years. I don’t know how to handle this. She has seven year old son and her husband adopted boy three years ago, when he was five months. Her husband feels angry now days to come to visit my place but she still manages him to come to my house. I don’t know what it’s in her mind?
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I am in love with a married woman. I know her for last eleven years. She is married little over seventeen years and her husband is about fourteen years older than her. It was an arrange marriage by her family. Right now she is 44 years old, same as my age. She said, she was never been happy with her marriage. I do love her but from her side is very unclear. If I talk to any woman, she does get jealous. I do think about her almost every moment for last few years. I don’t know how to handle this. She has seven year old son and her husband adopted boy three years ago, when he was five months. Her husband feels angry now days to come to visit my place but she still manages him to come to my house. I don’t know what it’s in her mind?
m 27 she is 27 with 3 kids.. we r so much in love… i know its not logic but pls let ur answers be logic,
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I understand you’re the same age and have feelings and all that, but the fact is she has already married someone and has kids. Don’t overlook that VERY important fact!
I too im in love with a married woman. i was friends with the husband before it happend. I became closeer to her and we had feelings for each other she had two children with him. She got pregant by me and terminated that. than left him for me. I told her that she had to go back to her children witch i knew she would do anyway. we didnt talk for over 15 years. I got ahold of her last year and we talk everyday most of the day via text or phone. her children r grown and live seperate. She never had a job. and now is dependant on her husband for support. She says she loves both of us and says shes in love w me. It Can b very emotional when someone tells u they want to be with you but oesnt know how. My question is should i go to her to look in her eyes or should i stand back and wait for her to take action.
The more time goes on the more she wants to see me. She claims that her husband has allways brought the affair up even with company. the whole time i was gone.
Im still very much in love with her and were bestfriends too.
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We have been talking avery day for 10 months now
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