Love help: What on earth has happened to men?

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What on earth has happened to men?

! Where’s the passion?! I’ve been in three relationships over the past year and I’m confused! I remember watching those men in the movies who would whisk a woman off her feet and bang her senseless until either could barely stand…

So why is this not happening to me? Where are all the men who want to spend hours in bed doing nothing but finding new ways to please and be pleased? Where’s the exploration, the passion, the animal need of it?

It all seems so boring! Please, help!

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gimli 7 #
Marietta, GA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

It’s happening because your sense or reality is badly screwed up. Since when does TV equate to reality?

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rstarzboxer 4 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Men…..boring. They haven’t changed. Sorry.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I agree with gimli. Movies, tv show are all exaggerations.

Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

that’s just an age old trick. the romantic fantasy. without that no men would ever have a relationship at all.

Plox Nork 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Hehe. This reminds me of the Friends episode when Joey and Chandler get hooked on pornos.

Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

maybe one or two would

Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

No, actually my girlfriend and I did this before we were married five months ago. I loved to please her and vice versa, and I loved to hear her say, “I’ve had so many orgasms I can’t get up!” Sometimes we made love seven or eight times during the night, and three times in the morning. We’d laugh about “destroying” each other! We really love each other, and are bonded so deeply on so many levels. So the answer to your question is, yes, there can be a LOT of passion when you are right for each other!

Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

thank god

countryironrocket 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

He’s out there for you somewhere.
You just haven’t found the right one yet.
Just don’t stop looking you might find him tomorrow or 5 year down the road.
You have plenty of time to find him don’t rush it.

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