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Is it wrong…

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Is it wrong that I don’t wanna vote for my best friend for president? I don’t think he’d make a good president. And I have other reasons too. Like I want the other person to win because I’m running for vice president and the other person is weak, so to the commission he’d be the figure head and I’d really be doing everything. Then next year I could run for president. Another reason is that I hate being under my best friend, and because I haven’t told him that I’m not voting for him, I resent myself, for resenting him.

He’s not a nice person. But I’ve entrusted him and now I’m scared that some of the things I’ve told him, he’ll tell others. What do I do? It’s wrong to keep lieing when he asks, but i don’t know what else to say. Am I cruel person??!!

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (1 minute after post)

not wrong at all. Keep your eye on YOU goal.

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nickpoole offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Be bold. Tell the truth.

Nothing but honesty works, in the end.

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cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 2 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Vote your conscience… the best person for the position!!! I don’t see why you need to tell anyone who you voted for… just say SORRY… that’s confidential info!! ;)

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30ishinPA offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

its rude for people to ask who u vote for.

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susanp79 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Dont tell anyone who you are voting for and when they ask tell them its none of their business, in a nice way of course. Vote for who you want to vote for!!

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cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 2 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

If he asks who you voted for you could just say “Who do you think?” ;) … but then, sorry… I can’t discuss it! :)

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2edeeze offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

When you said “he’s not a nice person” I question whether you really see him as friend. Maybe your not really his friend, but rather an enemy under the guise as a friend.

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cattail offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (14 hours, 58 minutes after post)

If you feel he’d really blackmail you for not voting for him… that’s not a friend… does this person really deserve your friendship anyway?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (15 hours after post)

awe, hes a friend. just be nice to him. be his friend. no need to wipe people out of your life when they fall short. Vote for what your gut tells ya and just understand where your friends at and love him anyway.

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Eccedentesiast offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

no. you’re what we like to call smart. just don’t tell him who you voted for.

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