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It’s my boyfriend, recently he has been acting weird with me.

Not like he used to be and the other day he said he wanted a break? After he did say he didn’t mean it but he must of been thinking of it.
Also I was just on his bebo website and there are alot of comments/posts from girls and i’ve read the comments they have sent each other nothing to alarming expect he was giving out his messenger address, so then he could be chatting them up?
Also when I look at his phone he never has any messages and I know for a fact hes always texting because when i’m with him his phone goes out.
I’m most proberly parionod but I think he might be chatting up other girls behind my back?
I’m scared of saying anything incase it really is true, and I end up getting hurt. Or unless he lets loose?
Please help

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

try asking him whats up with him lately

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x__louisean offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I have tried asking him but all I is “nothing for f**k sake”

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candycoupo offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

then hes probably hiding something
see if you can find out!
or ask anyone that may know

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Hmm ok, I will try but who will know?
because I can’t add the girls he speaks to because they will be like “who are you” and my boyfriend will be starting on me.
How can i ?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

People can always tell when something’s not quite right…….90% of the time your instincts are right. here’s the deal: “if a guy is really into you….then you never have to ask him if he is into you…..he shows it…period.” if a guy is not really into you…..causes worry and so called “paranoia”….always remember this:
Actions speak much louder than words. if someone has to convince you…than you shouldn’t be convinced.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

cant u ask him again personally?
& tell him how you feel about this?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

it may seem scary but you have to ask. getting hurt is not what anyone wants but its better than living a lie. you cant let him take advantage of you or your feelings. dont sneak around to find out ..just go straight to it, be forward and ask him what is going on. dont be to cocky though because like you said you could just be very scared to lose him. dont be to protective it makes people want to venture more. so pretty much just ask questions and be calm about it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

i havent been on here recently so just catching up,
well since i posted this 3 girls have popped up. the first one he liked this really upset and she went to my school in the same year and i was very close with her. the second girl was when i was on holiday he apprently got “bored” and went met this girl on his own this really upset me and we broke up about it, then a couple days after i found this out he told me he liked his ex.

but now were really good.

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